We were together for 6 years we both are from different countries different religion i am hindu and she is christian. We still love eachother so much but last year in march25,2025 we got apart due to her family pressure and now her family brainwashed her. I have lost everything my happiness, my life everything. Please someone help me, i have never looked for any other girl but her. I even did agares situal but it doesnt seems to work she’s keep on blocking me . Please for the sake of love and humanity please someone help me through. I’ll always be in your debt.
I know these situations can be difficult. But your chances of success are much greater if you can get yourself into a calmer state first.
In cases like this it can be that easing the sense of obsession with the situation can allow you to do your workings without getting in your own way. For this, I can recommend Kevashiel. Ive found engaging Kevashiel per the method in Jareth Tempests book Raziel’s paths of power (either volume 1 or volume 2 I dont recall exactly which) to be very effective for dealing with lust for results and any other obsessive thinking.
I understand that right now it may feel like this situation is your life. But its not. Its something that is happening in your life.
Once you can ease yourself into a calmer mindset, setting aside the feeling of obsession, you will have greater chances of success with whatever methods you try
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Thank you sir but will it really work because i’m exhausted trying since 14 months.
No one can guarantee an outcome, but your chances are a lot better if you can ease or remove the obsession first
Sounds like you cannot override her free will. You have tried, and that may have made it worse, as she could have sensed that as a psychic attack and made her see you as an enemy.
At this point, you are better of using magick to kill the pain. This is my working for that: basically remove and heal the attachment and the energetic wound if has caused.
You don’t want her back, you want to stop hurting and find a nice, emotionally available local woman who understands you and will treat you right.
Here: Mulberry's "destroy an unwanted connection / relationship using a poppet" tutorial
Stick around and we can help troubleshoot your magick, whatever path you choose. This wound and the energy blocks it causes also block your ability to do magick well and your path to ascension, so I would say your healing is the priority, not the woman who left you in a mess.
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Hello @danin
I saw the part that was removed and i need to drop this here, not for legal reasons since you’ve corrected it, but for your own well being.
Just to make this clear: This is your point of view. If you’re here seeking for a love spell / get your ex back then it’s not a shared view.
Especially since she keeps blocking you as you said. I’m not saying it to break your heart, I’m saying it because you need to dissolve the illusions around your situation as illusions are what make you think that a spell or ritual will fix instantly everything. Hopes and illusions aren’t the same thing and while one can motivate you and accelerate your magic if you also ground it in real life action, illusions don’t offer a realistic and grounded outcome and usually lead to obsession and negative energetic bonds.
That said, you can check this thread that may help you, but as they said above outcome is never guaranteed as there’s another person’s free will that you need to bypass.
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Thanks for the heads up but i’m not gonna stop until i’m breathing. Because few days back she said only few words as text msg like i too cant live without you but because of my family pressure i cant do anything. She is scared of her family like hell.
Very well. I wish you luck. This may take a while - as in, years, and to do this magickally you have a lot to learn. We will not do this for you here - we are can help you learn to help yourself though, as fellow student of magick.
PLEASE do your intro - further posts will be removed until the rule is respected. READ the rules.
Follow the links I gave you to get your protections in place - you are at a VERY high risk of attracting parasites that feed on misery, and probably already have some causing this obsession to remain and get worse. It is strongly advised that you do not attempt to summon until you have learned how to recognize and banish harmful entities.
You cannot do magick and succeed when you are not in command of yourself, which you are not.
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I’d like to point out an element of this situation… According to @danin’s latest post, the girl in question actually wants to be w/ him but is restrained by her family.
Doesn’t look like he’s trying to “force” her to love him… She loves him too but is restrained somehow.
I agree that cutting ties w/ her may be a wise idea, but shouldn’t she get her freedom back? Must not be healthy for her to be controlled by her family like that and be so afraid of them.
She has her freedom - SHE has voluntarily blocked HIM.
He’s in another country, so there are blocks here beyond her parents.
I would assume they suspect his motives and are just being logical. He cannot go to her country legally, which means he can’t support her, she’d be an idiot to go to a county where she doesn’t even speak the language or have prospects to support herself if it goes wrong
… if he was serious, instead of going tor emotional manipulation he’d be doing workings for success and wealth so he can move countries and show his quality and value to her parents, and then there’s no issue.
To women, if an ex-boyfriends reaction to a challenge is “imma kill meself if you don’t go out of your way to help me” - that is not a man and certainly not partner material, that is a weakling incapable of sustaining a life partnership and being there for her or any kids, and that is a serious threat to survival issue that women instinctively shy away from.
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And this is one reason why I never wanted to do professional magical work, especially in this area. There is almost always a glaring lack of self-awareness as to what the real issue actually is.
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