How to approach a demon

Well, I want to reach out to Dantalion to ask him for help with getting back other person(my ex).

I am still not sure about who exactly to reach out, since there are also suggestions of Amon, Agares and others. But I think Dantelion is the best choice.

My situation with this person is pretty harsh, he hold a grudge on me, blocked me everywhere and don’t want reconciliation, while I determined to get him. Not in the bad way, I just know his fears and I know, that I mean no harm to him. Please, don’t tell me it’s morally incorrect. Even, if it won’t work out, maybe this time I will learn a lesson.

I think of buying a green candle, carve his sigil onto it and put a petition under the candle, while it burning. I would sit and meditate, till feel his presence(If I will). I also think to offer him my favorite tea, but I don’t know how. Put a glass with brewed tea behind a candle? Or put there a teabag? And what should I do with offerings after the ritual?

I want to do it today in the evening, but it’s Monday, while most people tell it’s better to be Friday. I want to make a honey jar this Friday, I don’t want to layer this. Or should I do it simultaneously?

I am new to this topic and still know not much about this. Maybe you can recommend me with whom to work.

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Try and sit in meditation every day for about 15 to 30 mins while chanting either the enn or just the name of the demon you’ll eventually fancy to utuilize friday. You can burn/ offer some incense while doing so. This creates a bit of a bond and you might be able to see if the energy of that demon fits you.

I’m not going to moralize, because it’s your situation not mine. But…. it.might also be a good idea to contemplate a little bit on how it would be to start the relationship up again and how it would be and feel to be in that relationship again. Be honest to yourself, you might decide against the whole thing. Since we all tend to idealize the things we lost and forget the negative parts. If after honest contemplation you still don’t decide against a second try of this relationship, this makes sure you’re in the right frame of mind (a sense that you already live in the reality you wish to create, instead of eagerly lusting for a result in the future)

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Thanks! I’ll give it a try!

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Ok, I’m a little amazed here because I was thinking about the exact same thing, and to also start working with Dantalion for that same purpose, therefore you asked the same things I wanted to (trust me, I was even thinking about offering him tea too lol). I think we both should meditate on his enn till friday (as someone here suggested) and then try to contact him to formally ask for help. But let me ask you, dom how exactly do you plan on asking for his help? Like asking him to make your ex change his mind about reconciliating, to make him decide to reach out to you and start talking, etc? Because influencing thoughts has a lot of possibilities, you could ask small things first before just jumping into full on reconciliation. Also, I really wish you luck, and I wonder if I could pm you, because I really sympathized with you because of our incredibly similar situations lol

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Greetings.

I’d like to describe how I’m currently working with the daimons (I’m deliberately using the neutral, ancient Greek term, pre-Christian).

I like Gordon Winterfield’s descriptions; they allow a lot of room for free, unconstrained egregoric visualizations and don’t bind one to a predetermined image of how the daemons should present themselves.

I use Demonolatry, meaning without any angels, etc.

First, I invoke my dark angel, the counterpart to the guardian angel, in a classic way.

I draw a black triangle with the corresponding sigil on a sheet of A4 paper, although I will soon try to have the sigils imprinted on my mind in a soft tone during an invocation, “somehow.”

Around the triangle, I write the name of the daemon three times in Hebrew I’ve modified.

I place three black candles around it, recite the letters individually, and invoke the daemon with complete respect and freedom.

I engage in almost a conversation or a free-flowing prayer, stating that I don’t want to bind and command like everyone else because I believe that even Solomon’s Temple was destroyed by the backlash.

Additionally, before I even begin the ritual, I write in Theban script what I would like.

I burn it after the invocation.

During the invocation, I ask—or rather, I say—that I want a sign that the subtle spirit is present.

Almost always, I receive a thought I’ve never had before, often something very abstract.

For example: Bime, I noticed someone stepping down from a ladder out of nowhere, or Gremory presents itself as a very beautiful woman in a black robe.

I also observe the current state of the moon, whether it’s increasing or decreasing, etc. Depending on the reading, I use it to amplify the whole experience.

That’s all.

Let me know if you want to know more!

Kind of simple right now because i do not use ENNS at this point in time because i am doing the darker path since three years now and still got to learn a lot.

Best wishes and good luck! (Translated from German using Google Translate)

Check out Gordon Winterfield’s Daemons of Magik… you’re sure to find the right daimon there! Guaranteed!

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