May I say something here, sex magick may seem fun at first but doing it solo there’s something you should know. There can be no laptop, no phone, no mags, no porn of any kind. The entire point of sex magick is complete focus on the ritual at hand, the amount of so called “Sex Magick Magicians” that do these rituals and watch pornography is staggering.
You must be in a ritualised/spiritual setting, either incense burning, candle light or complete darkness. If your using a sigil, idol or some other spiritual focal point, your entire attention should be focused on that. While the rest of your attention is pleasuring yourself and sensing the sexual energy and sexual current of power circumventing through you.
Giving mantra, incantation, conjuration, prayer or chant, whilst performing meditation and/or visualisation and masturbating simultaneously until you reach near climax.
Bringing that sexual power up like a bolt of lightning from the lower chakras up to the crown, pushing that power outwards to the focal point and into the world. As orgasm/ejaculation is reached, squirting on the idol/sigil/focal point. Whilst visualising your intent/desire and pushing of power and will, a final decree of your will and intent is spoken.
You then enter into a silent relaxed meditation and psychologically retract yourself from the ritual and the desire of the outcome. This is how solo sex magick is done, it isn’t for pure gratification, it is harnessing the vital, raw and primal currents of power and energy, directing that into your magick to cause change in the world, self etc.
This is an ancient form of magick, it should never be taken lightly, think about it and don’t go overdoing it either trust me, it’ll leave you more drained than you realise.