Is there any soft love spells that would make my ex come back to me. That wont make her obsessed or lusty but maybe re ignite her love that wouldn’t affect her too much. Because I heard obsession spell made someone kill themself because being too obsessed. Country I’m living in don’t have almost any spell casting materials so low to no material spells would be appreciated. Thank you in advance. And yes I’m an adult, born 2007.
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Yes, candle spells for attraction (or you can use any flame - a fireplace also works). Include in your intent something like “if it be her will”, and this provides a pressure valve so that it’s not against her free will and then doesn’t cause inner conflict and madness.
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@Polyxena This is now a Formal Warning, since you posted that you knew you were preaching and did it anyway. Please do not preach and post off topic on working threads. If you cannot contribute something helpful to the point of the OP, do not post.
you can do come back to me work.
if its okay could you explain how it works?
Hold on, are you taking about two different exes? You want one back and the other to go away?
uh the last “There’s ex of me who still have romantic feelings for me” is about a different ex. I have 2 exes, she and I parted ways on good term and its been year and half. But she still says she misses me. I dont know why it got linked to this post
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That’s not a working, per se, it’s a general type of working. The candle spell suggestion I gave you also comes under that general umbrella term.
You can also use visualization on this: in a calm, meditative state, see the situation you wish for and feel about it as if it was already here. No tools at all.
My bad, I was trying to keep the forum tidy and realized I messed up. I fixed it now, thanks for clarifying!
thank you for the fix! my first ex mentioned on the 2nd post is from high school and we parted ways because of school and stuff and became normal friends but she still missed me so wanted to help her lose romantic feelings without messing our friendship. my second ex from the 1st post is like the one I really want to get back with because we planned so many things together and wanted to marry.
could you also fix the title back to “Are there soft make your ex come back”
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Whoops, got it.
If you try the search, use the search term “tool free magick using your hands”, for a walk though tutorial on visualizing plus movement. In this case it sets up protective wards, but you can adapt it to visualize anything you want.