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Yeah, sounds like it worked and she’s thinking of you, and open to reading, but as an avoidant might just need more time. I’m an avoidant, so I totally get what you mean: love is not blind for an avoidant, love is more like a liability that exposes her to risk. How long has it been?
Avoidance is not stubbornness, though - it’s fear of being hurt. You may or may NOT have actually hurt her - it’s a fundamentally self-protecting approach to life, but something triggered it since she got over her fears enough to marry you.
In this situation I would recommend healing more than love spells, and layer in persuasion that trying again for a future with you is worth the risk of hurt (… and, with all due respect, is it?). Love isn’t always the issue, it’s all the crap in the way, and an avoidant chooses head over heart - she could be really hurting and will take the pain for logical reasons. So you have to address those reasons. The pros of being with you have to outweigh the cons. Whatever happened she needs reassurance it won’t happen any more.
I don’t know why this would this do anything? … doesn’t address why she left, right? What is the block your friend intends to target? Is that something just not mentioned in your OP?
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again it’s not some petty, random stubbornness - she’s protecting herself from you causing her hurt, so you have to convince her you’re safe.
Paimon and Dantalion are popular for persuasion. And Belial for you, to help you follow through on any promises you might make. -
You can’t override free will, you can only trick it, in this case by sending her mad - and then what comes back isn’t the person you wanted anyway, and it’s even worse feeling like the one you loved doesn’t exist any more.
You can try anyway and maybe it’ll work out for you. In this case, speaking from experience you will have to keep topping up the spell as she’ll heal from it constantly. For the rest of your life, potentially.
I think you have enough out there already though, at this rate the only one affected will be you and you’ll be the one getting obsessed - this is called backlash and is a common risk in love workings. Let the current workings play out.
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