We collected a bunch of love/lust tutorial here, or just use the search function, or search Amazon or your fave spiritual bookstore for books, you have a lot of options.
I always suggest Foras, for his ability “to understand a loved one” - you want to be sure you’re not being played here, because that’s honestly what it sounds like.
The getting started guide with all forum orientation stuff, links to tutorials and popular megathreads are here: GETTING STARTED GUIDE, Rules, Notables, Tutorials and References. The links in that megathread are forum-made tutorials for things like spiritual hygiene, developing your astral senses and avoiding impostors and parasites… When you can be sure you’ll not get attacked by parasites, then try Unofficial Tutorials: First Contact from Sigils to Evocation Collection.
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