i love him, and i know he loves me too. we have feelings for eachother, we talked about it a lot but he told me he doesn’t feel like having a relationship because he just got out of one, that he’s confused with what he wants with me and needs time. but he still kisses me, grabs my hand, comes to my house, and now he’s ghosting me. i need something strong to attract him to me, that clarifies his mind, that sweetens him and there’s only love between us.
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I always suggest Foras, for his ability “to understand a loved one” - you want to be sure you’re not being played here, because that’s honestly what it sounds like.
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done! sorry for not doing it before, i didn’t know. thank you!
thank you! it’s the first time i enter this site sorry, i didn’t know i could search for specific things. unfortunaly, here in Argentina is kind of difficult to find books of that kind, amazon just recently started working here and the shipping costs are crazy, but maybe i can find a pdf or a secondhand book!
i don’t know if he’s playing with me and i really hope he’s not, he has a specific way to look and talk to me that feels just so special, he always says that he loves me and hugs me so tight but now he’s ghosting me out of nowhere so i don’t really understand what’s happening. i think he’s just confused and needs a little push. eitherway i don’t want to force him to anything, if the spell works, i want it to be with the feelings we already have for eachother
thank you for the guide and links! i will definitely read them.
This is the red flag I saw in your first post that you have been played. You’re not supposed to understand. If you did you’d cut him loose and he wants to be the one who rejects, not you.
A player has multiple women and every one of them thinks she’s the special one. That’s how it works. But they don’t commit because they are usually avoidant attachment types look that up on youtube - and they identify with the validation they get from being able to fuck many women, so they will keep you guessing and not explain because they may want more sex later, they just switch to someone more new and have to put in the time to make them fall in live too.
This is the sane approach that also avoids the risks of magick that tries to go against free will. It’s also a goo test.
I normally don’t put time limits on magick when I an all paths of manifestation to stay available, (others swear by it though) but here, if the magick hasn’t worked in say, 3 months, then I suggest it’s best to accept that it was all an illusion and he’s a player.
If it comes to that you can use magick to cut the cords and dissolve your attachment so that you don’t care and stop hurting, and can move on to find someone that actually cares.