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No. Not even a little bit. For many rope isnât even sexual, and a succubus is all about exchange of sexual energy
You get a succubus by petitioning Lilith as the easiest way - and waaay easier than being your own rope bunny. If you have any experience in rope play (I do) that should be obvious. I think someone is pulling your leg.
Use the search at top right for the keywords âLilith petition succubusâ - itâll come right up.
I donât see what this has to do with a âDark Selfâ though. If you mean shadow work, itâs not really related, though a succubus could probably help you.
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