So, I’m new to this forum, and I’ve been practicing sigil/candle magick for a few years now. However, a recent situation in my life calls for some dramatic changes being made, and I’ve become interested in some more “left-hand” methods of accomplishing that.
I was dating a woman for over 6 years. 4 years ago, we had some issues, and we suffered a few breakups/messed up situations. But we resolved them, and I grew out of my part of the conflict in the years that followed. We had an absolutely beautiful relationship, based on trust, intimacy, and the absolute deepest love I’ve ever seen. We lived together for 5 years, and built the most amazing home together. We were absolutely inseparable, and talking about marriage constantly. However, this year, she suggested that we try polyamory (literally the same day I was going to ask her to look at rings). I reluctantly agreed, as I knew she’d been wanting to explore her bisexuality for some time, and didnt want to tell her she couldn’t. But very soon after the first time she had sex with the person she met (who was a mutual friend, that said they would back off if needed), she stopped wanting to even hold my hand. She would still tell me every day how much she wanted to “kiss her again,” and even though I’d asked her to stop before it even happened the first time, they continued having sex (once right in front of me, giving me a panic attack later that night) and forming a relationship. She then began dragging up the past issues we had from 4 years ago, dragging my name through the mud with my friends and family, and then telling her whole family I was a “cheater” (though the only time I was ever with another person was very briefly when we were broken up 4 years prior). The “third” started parroting and manipulating her into seeing patterns that didnt exist, and told me to my face she wasnt leaving unless my girlfriend specifically asked her to. My girlfriend of 6 years, now looked at me as if I was the scum of the earth, despite loving me enough to marry a week prior; and broke up with me.
Since then, (3 days later), the two of them entered a relationship. My ,now, ex blocked me on every possible avenue of communication, except my phone number, which she only kept free to tell me when she was coming by to get her stuff. And even then, she kept bringing the person she left me for to my home, and treated me very coldly, as if we hadn’t ever even once cared about each other. Her new girlfriend, laughing at me the entire time, as I became more and more depressed and hurt by this.
Now, I’m only telling my story because I wish to know EXACTLY which curses/evocations would suit my situation. I do not wish my ex harm, and I would like to bring her back with love if possible, as this whole situation was extremely out of character for her. But I do wish to see this third person suffer a bit. She destroyed something very precious to me, and while I’ve had some time to heal and get my emotional state balanced, my hatred for her is still palpable.
My question: Who can I evoke to bring these things about? What curses exist to completely wreck a new relationship/harm only one individual within it? And, are there any real Love spells/curses that would help me bring the one I love home QUICKLY to reconcile (though she moved away)? I dont trust the things I’ve seen online, and it seems most people are just selling crappy scented candles as a fix.
Sincerely, I appreciate any response. But every day that passes, this situation grows worse. I need help, and I need direction. I have already decided over time that this is the route I’m taking. So please don’t just tell me to move on. I need real Intel here.
Thank you all.