Hello Iām new here and really need some advice. The love of my life and I broke up 8 months ago and Iām desperate for him back.
Our relationship wasnāt always easy and for a long time (5 years) we were together un officially seeing other people, or trying to, and always coming back together. I loved him desperately and didnāt want anyone else. Last year we decided to make things official. I was the happiest if ever been 
However, to put it bluntly, I fucked up bigtime. When you finally get everything you wanted itās terrifying. I was so scared I was going to loose him I pushed him away 
I was devastated. Like my world ended. I have waited paiently for him to come back like he always did but this time itās different. He has gone back to his ex (i believe this was a result of my hurting and rejecting him that he returned to her, he told me many times he actually hated the woman) I have asked the universe for signs this man is my tiwn flame and the signs came quick and fast. Iām not ready to give him up.
Can anyone give me advice on any spells or rituals that can help me? I honestly beg for help my life is ruined i think of him all day everyday nothing else seems to matter anymore and itās breaking me being without him. I thank you in advance for your help 
Use the search bar and inquire about love spells, there are many avaible in the forum use whichever to your disgression!
Thank you Killua Iām just unsure of which to pick being a novice I donāt want to harm myself or him or summon a demon wrongly and end up doing more harm than good 
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My suggestion is to be very specific and donāt let them fill in the blanks for you, as it may not fit your ideals of how the relationship will turn out.
If you are not comfortable with the knowledge you currently have on evokation then i suggest doing a simple candle spell which is also discussed on the forum.
My personal recommendation is to listen to HZ, or binaural beats. Manifest your loved one listening to these while sleeping.
Also, meditations by Agnes Viviarelli, she talks a lot about meditations to attract your ex back.
My biggest suggestion is to do a contact spell before any of these, because communication will apply a better chance to you succeeding.
once you either gain contact or do more research and have a better understanding, then definitely evoke either Dantalion, sallos, and pomba gira.
they worked well for me!
Please do some research. The whole concept of a ātwin flameā does NOT mean you are āmeant to beā together in any way.
these links may help you
Also, be aware that love spells are only temporary, and unless you work on yourself and grow as a person, whatever broke you up to begin with, will break you up again.
Yeah I understand that. But he is my absolute mirror in every way our relationship was perfect and like I say it was me and my own insecurities that messed it up, which i have been working on these last 8 months of no contact.
Thank you Killua you have been very helpful
He has his own will, so be prepared for him to fight your magick if he doesnāt want to get back together with you at all. Just because you think he is your āTwin Flameā does not mean he does, nor does it mean he actually is.
That is the main problem with things like this, and you are the 5th or 6th person in the last week to come to us for this kind of thing. What you think is happening is not necessarily what is really happening. You think you are āmeant to beā with this person, but he obviously doesnāt think the same way, otherwise he wouldnāt have left, but you want to force yourself on him anyway, with no consideration for his wants, needs or happiness.
You have no experience with magick so let me fill you in on what you are actually planning to do. You are actually cursing this person that you claim to love. This isnāt love magick, but actually a coercive, manipulative, curse because you are placing your wants above his, which is all fine and dandy, as people here curse for the pettiest of reasons, but please donāt delude yourself into thinking you are doing it because you love him. If you truly loved him, then his happiness would be your primary concern, not your own. This is a selfish, manipulative curse, and nothing more, and you need to understand that because he will fight it once his will reasserts itself, regardless of what spirits you employ, and he might very well hate you for it.
BUT, BUT, BUT - You have been on here 1 hour, do as more experienced say. You are by your own admission new and inexperienced therefore you need to take notice, do research, and not assume that people are here to pander to your needs. Imagine how much a doctor or lawyer would charge for advice.
I 100% agree with you. Last thing Iād want is to hurt or curse him.
And yes I still love him and believe he still loves me and has left because of my own stupidity and because I hurt him deeply.
I truly believe he is not happy in his current situation and thatās down to previous conversations and incidents that you know nothing of.
What i actually came here looking for was not a way to āmakeā him love me but for a way for him to awaken the love thatās already there. After all you donāt just stop loving someone? I wanted a way to reach him so see if those feelings are still there, or a way to get him to contact me so i myself could see if there still there after all he blocked me when i hurt him and who could blame him?
Iām not wanting to enslave him to me by magic what would be the point of that knowing he was only there because of a spell?
If he is happy and no longer cares for me I will whole heartedly wish him well and leave him to his life but I love him too much to not try something to see this for myself
I honestly donāt know why your so defensive and condescending people come here in what are some of the lowest points of their life to seek help and answers 
A little support or gentle encouragement even constructive criticism wouldnāt go amiss without the need to sound so undermining Iām my opinion. I do however respect your views and thank you for your input.
I understand that I havenāt came here to click my fingers and for someone to pop a love spell in my inbox. I came for advice and guidence which you are in now way obliged to give me if you so wish
No way*
Iām sorry for some of the messages you have received in regards to your question. No one is intitled to tell you love magick is wrong, and you are in no way wrong for wanting to achieve your goals. Keep striving for the best, and disregard the negativity.
Thank you Killua 
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This statement contradicts your opening post:
You say you donāt want to force him to love you, yet you donāt want to accept his own autonomy to make decisions, and you think your life is āruinedā because you are not together with him? Okayā¦
My advice is, before you even think of calling demons or doing any magick against him, that you get a divination done as to the possible outcome. Ask someone to do a tarot reading for you on the most likely possibility if you perform the magick. Then you can make an informed decision regarding your course of action from there.
@killua if you bothered to read the responses in this thread, no one has ever said love magick was wrong. All that was said by those with more experience than either you or the OP, is that trying to force someone to come back isnāt love magick, but coercive magick. Nowhere was it written that it was right or wrong, only as to what kind of magick it really is.
I feel like my life is ruined because it was me that caused him to leave! And anything I can do to put that right or even try is worth a shot
To be honest you donāt need to reply to posts in such a negative way you are choosing to do this of your own accord to create a conflict or make people feel āput downā
I wonder if maybe you should find a spell for āmore effective ways of communicating with othersā 
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But thank you for your suggestion of tarot reading I will look into this
the OP asked for advice in regards to love spells and what she could do to aid her in her goal. You donāt know them and neither do i, yet i will give them the benefit of the doubt and assume they are genuine about their feelings towards this person. Despite that what you said was indeed beneficial information however the way it was presented seemed to me at least, discouraging.
I, as someone who had the same expirance and can relate to the way they may be feeling understand the desperation and need that may come off when asking āwhat to doā when it comes to a love spell. But the comment to me at least unnecessary and didnāt give them any advice on the actual question at hand.