hey guys, I truly hope you all had a beautiful day and are doing well Iām really grateful to even be able to ask this here and talk openly about these things with people who may understand or have experience with them.
I wanted to ask if someone could genuinely help guide me with these topics:
simple but powerful and lasting reconciliation spells
love chants and love spells
self love, confidence, energy and becoming more powerful within myself
how to truly quantum shift and change my 3D reality with the right thoughts and mindset. Iāve been struggling with overcoming negative thoughts and fully aligning myself with the good things and desires I want to attract into my life
speaking with spirits and connecting spiritually. if anyone has experience with that, I would deeply appreciate your guidance
thank you all so much in advance
I appreciate every single person who takes the time to read this.
Itās your one-stop shop for lots of good nugget on this forum - have a scroll through it and you will see tutorial collections for all these and more.
No one is going to spoon feed you, we donāt have time, but with a small effort on your part itās all here. Notice thereās a collection for love workings, and please use the Search - thereās 14 years of topics you should check out.
That was really really helpfull i was searching for these topics but i didnāt find what i was searching for so this helps a lot thank you very much!! Another question to you, how can i be sure not getting attaked by parasites?
Its a bit like asking - how do I not get bitten by mosquitoes if I go to an area that has them? You can take steps but if theyāre there, theyāll probably try.
This is why you need a twofold approach
Use protections like your wards and shields, and cleansing and banishing before and after rituals as preventative measures, and also,
Know how to directly banish them and failing that attack them and kill them if anything gets through.
Oh yea, could have thought about that too haha. But just to be clear, what exactly do we identify as a parasite?
So far I mostly know about salt circles together with herbs and plants. I also like to speak chants or mantras that are supposed to protect me, but the question is, do they actually work?
I donāt really know much about banishing rituals yet. Would you be so kind and maybe link me the guides for protection methods, cleansing, banishing, and also what to do if something negative gets through or needs to be removed?
Iād really appreciate it a lot, thank you so much for taking the time to help me out
Ohh thanks a lot!! I have another question i have real a lot last night about that and practices for me aswell. I now got into a bad situation with my boyfriend of 4 years. I saw him with another girl called him and he literally broke up on the phone. I accepted it we see us tomorrow and exchange the rest of the stuff. But honestly i dont accept that i will be banishing her and get him back because literally yesterday we had a beautiful tile together he said he loves me will do anything for my at all so i dont beliefe him at all and i will change his mind with the help of you and some spitits. I now just need help what spirits can help me ASAP. I know about leraje and glasyas labolas but honestly i have no idea what to do and what other spirits would be the best because it has a lot i really need ur help thank you a lot!!
Fair warning: Love magick is hard, itās very baneful and can backfire and make you obsessed and more miserable and not affect the target, so FIRST, make sure you set up your protections - at least one ward, a mirror shield and know how to cleanse yourself magickally. This is a basic rule before doing any baneful magick - if you play with fire, wear gloves.
These are in the spiritual hygiene link above.
Second, look up how to do a āsour jarā to break them up. This will be easier and safer than using an entity when you are new to this. If you want to use an entity, look up how to do a āpetitionā (in the first contact link a above" and call Amon to break thier connection. You can also try aim to add disruption to her and make her volatile, distrusted and cause arguments.
Third, use a petition with Amon to enhance your relationship and bring him back.
I suggest you get ahold of a copy of a grimoire with descriptions of the offices - itās like a mini encyclopedia that tells you what each entity does. Use it like a coffee table book at first to leaf through it, read all the descriptions and it will bring you inspiration. You will see solutions that could fit better as I donāt know the full story. It also makes you independent of otherās opinions and able to find your own way.
I always recommend Corwin Hargroveās Goetia Pathworking, as I find it very effective, safe, has good energy and can be done without any tools or extra learning.
Thank you for your honesty. Iām in a situation right now where I really want to do these things tonight, but from what youāre saying, it seems like it takes time. I know magick can backfire, but in my 4 years of practicing, Iāve usually gotten what I wanted. Whether it was a honey jar or blockage removal, everything worked out for me so far.
Iām going to see him tomorrow, and I was wondering if doing the sour jar today could already be effective by then, or if I should focus on the spiritual hygiene and protection first. Honestly, I feel pretty cleansed already.
I was also wondering what kind of spell or working I could do to make him open up emotionally tomorrow. Regarding Amon, I donāt know much about him yet, so Iām not sure if I should do more research first or if you could maybe tell me the most important things about him.
To be honest, I would really love to contact him tonight. Do you think thatās realistic?
Focus on protection first. Iād also advise a divination into what protections they have - both of them - that could cause a ricochet or negate the working.
Foras can help you understand a loved one. Itās really weird and game-playing that heād tell you he loves you one day and the very next break up over the phone over a bit on the side. I donāt trust this one bit.
Check to see if she did a working on him - you may want a hex break.
I donāt really understand it either. I feel like the third party is confusing him and she needs to be out of the picture as soon as possible. Do you think I should do the sour jar tonight? Weāre seeing each other tomorrow evening and I want to be prepared.
When you say the third party āhexedā him or influenced him, do you mean that literally or more in a symbolic way? I didnāt really understand that part, and I also donāt know much about Foras.
In a way I do understand him, he seems really confused right now. I just want clarity and for him to realize what he actually feels.
I already started with protection could you advise me some good one i could practice today? I really waht to work with among tonight but what do you think?
I think you should wait. Men often need sexual variety and she probably told him to break up with you, and was there to see him do it or he didnāt get any pussy and he was horny.
If thatās the case, heāll do this again and his loyalty is a problem - much more than one incident. Basically the woman is not a serious thing - sheās just pussy. But then heās using both of you.
Andromalius can make a disloyal person reveal the truth: was he lying when he said he loved you just to keep you on the hook? In which case if you let him back, he will not leave, but heāll keep cheating knowing you let him get away with it.
Sheās an influence thatās a given, from telling him to break up with you to working an actual ritual. Divination can help clarify how much of an influence she has, but a guy who will cheat doesnāt break up unless heās put on the spot.
I did that already: mirror shield from the link I already gave you. READ that hole post - the ones you need will stand out and you will be drawn to them. Follow your intuition.
They are not having sex an i know that they just got a drink togehter and i saw them the whole time yk and yess he wants expirience but i will make him realize i am his expirience she is just some time he wants to use he is a bad person about this can among make him loyal or do you know another spirit that can help with that? I will focus on myself yess but i really think ybout contacting amon tomorrow would you help me with that? Can Androumalius make hom loyal or just tell me because he told me the truth i dont need to know that he was honesz he said he dont wanna hurt me he loves me but is just to young to bind hisself bit i know we are meant to grow old together
Thatās even weirder. I feel like part of the story is missing. How long has this women been in the picture?
No - get the book and look up the regular Ars Goetia offices online. and read it yourself to see.
Why should he though? You have to meet his needs to have this happen and it sounds like heās looking outside your relationship ti get his needs met. If you donāt know why or what he needs youāre fighting blind and not fixing the actual problem.
^ I think this is important. You also need to talk to him and ask him what she gives him that you do not.
Ok thatās bad. Stop pressuring him to commit if thatās whatās driving him off. But this could also be his excuse that he doesnāt see you as long term wife material. Your next move needs to be to find out why.
You just believing youāre āmeant to beā just sounds unhealthy and desperate, and desperation in love magick is when the magick most tends to make you the one more obsessed and can send you mad. It weakens the magick towards him and you get back what you are putting out, which is more desperation.
It takes two to do this you canāt just decide for him. If his will is stronger than yours, youāll get nowhere and waster your time. So you have to show him why youāre the right choice.
Are there any arguments or misalignments in the past that could have given him doubt about the relationship?
They work togehter for like 3 week i think i also know her was in school with her but to be honest iām working on deleting her from my 3D so it all works faster
i do know what he needs and it is his free time he wants to be free with me but like that i dont call hil often and that i dont stress him thats what he said he needs me to understand we are really open in communication. I dont really untwrstand this part sorry englisch is not my first lauguage and i honestly dont know where ro buy this book can i read the things online? And do you mean i need it first to contact amon or can i just prepare myself for it with research?
He said very clear he is unsure about binding he needs to find hisself what i see yea we lived togejtwr foe 3 years and he is now at his friends house because we decidet it like that so we can miss each other and on the phone later i said to him that its okay i accept it i also said that what he sais makes no sense because he said he loves me wants to get married wants kids but cant commit you know he said he cant imagine anyone else as the mother of his childs but its so diffucult i really need amon to clear that shit upā i see the point of desperation but what can help me with that he said it to so idk how can i be sure if i do my work it will not affect me more so it can target him to love me again and more. I know it takes to to decide but in spellwork there is no limit i have learnd so i can possibly change his mind that is true am i right? Becasue i feel what we have and he does to. And about the past no not really we both were really clingy and we loved it maybe i gave more but we comunicated really well about our problems
so i will learn more about amon to contact him, i have a condom of him and his fluida from yestwrday i also have a dring of him where possibly his salvia is in it can you reccomend any spell work i can practice myself that will make jim realize his mistakes till tomorow i know i have a lot to say and to ask and i just wanted to thank you taht you even take ur time to help me with all that you are a blessing to all of us!!
Ok so he wants you to be emotionally and sexually available with no commitment, which isnāt fair to you, and is just using you.
That makes this woman a āshit testā. A shit test is something people do when they want to see how badly you will let them treat you, because they plan on treating you badly on an ongoing basis, and are training you to accept that as your life.
At that point your goals are currently incompatible. Itās not about love and a love spell will not help - this is not a person who cares about women and you will not change that, itās a fundamental flaw in his personality.
You can try Dantalion or Paimon to see if you can change his approach to life, but at this point I think, unless you are financially dependent on him or have kids with him, cut your losses and do an attraction spell for a man that has values and will treat you right.
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I really understand what you mean, and I even thought about the same idea that this could be some kind of ātestā. But I feel like I handled it differently because I tend to be very warm and open, maybe even too soft sometimes. I know I didnāt react with anger or distance, but thatās just how I am.
The truth is I really love him, and I have loved him for 7 years. We met in school, and it feels hard for me to suddenly switch off those feelings or think coldly about everything. In my head, all of this feels very intense and confusing, but Iām still really optimistic that we are meant to find our way back to each other.
At the same time, I also want to slow things down and understand what is really going on between us, without pressure or confusion from outside influences. I just want honesty, clarity, and a stable connection.
I donāt want to rush into anything or force outcomes. I also need to understand my own worth in this situation and make sure Iām not losing myself in it. I want things to develop in a healthy way, step by step, if itās truly right for both of us.
Iām really grateful to even be able to ask this here and talk openly about these things with people who may understand or have experience with them.
i see the point of desperation but what can help me with that he said it to so idk how can i be sure if i do my work it will not affect me more so it can target him to love me again and more. I know it takes to to decide but in spellwork there is no limit i have learnd so i can possibly change his mind that is true am i right? Becasue i feel what we have and he does to. And about the past no not really we both were really clingy and we loved it maybe i gave more but we comunicated really well about our problems