Please use the search before asking basic questions - they have all been discussed a hundred times before here
https://forum.becomealivinggod.com/search?expanded=true&q=revenge%20
Make your mind up, you will have poor results trying to both get revenge and attract.
Obsession workings are notorious for backfiring and you’re more likely to harm yourself. Like attracts like, and then the target feels the attack, naturally rejects it and runs, and you lost all and any chance of getting back together.
Read around the forum - there’s many cases where the only person it affects is you making you feel even worse. You can’t see clearly now it will get worse and you can trap yourself for years in misery instead of healing. Your case it prime for this because of the anger of humiliation.
The best thing to do, is use magick on your own emotions to get rid of the parasitic energy upsetting you, cleanse yourself and get over it with magick.
Please make your Introduction HERE [ ← click me! ], which we need per the forum rules and see our posting guidelines in the FAQ.
Points to cover:
- Do you have any practical experience in magick?
- If so, what exactly do you practice and how long have you practiced?
- Do you follow any specific system or tradition?
- What are your areas of interest?
Here is a getting started with magick guide.
You’ll want to get your spiritual hygiene sorted out, and start work on developing your astral senses.
Then when you can know you have a decent chance at avoiding impostors and parasites then try the first contact guides we have on here.
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