Struggling with Love Spells: Seeking Advice on getting a specific woman

Love, Sex Magick & Relationships
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Hey everyone!

I started practicing magic back in August 2021 with one goal in mind: to win the heart of a specific woman. Since then, I’ve had amazing results, like improving my income as an IT freelancer, landing a popular position at my 9-5, improving my looks - the list goes on! However, the one area where I haven’t been able to achieve my desired outcome is in my love life.

I come from a conservative background, and I’ve always struggled with relationships. Even though women have started paying more attention to me since I started working with goetic demons, I still can’t seem to win the woman who inspired me to start practicing magic.

Let me give you some background on this woman. We used to see each other every day at the library for years before I graduated from college. I was so focused on my studies and my 60-hour work weeks as a freelancer that I didn’t feel ready for a relationship at the time, so I never made a move. It was tough seeing her get with someone else, but they broke up about two years ago. We’ve only talked a few times since then, and I’ve asked her out twice, but she said she had a boyfriend - which I later found out was untrue.

We’ve run into each other a few times at the gym since it reopened. On one instance I did not know what to do and she walked past me. Through a reading I confirmed she assumed I was annoyed and distanced herself even though she was interested to speak with me. On another instance I said hi and she friendly replied back, but later I saw she was with someone. It did not look like they are in a relationship, but I didn’t want to rush things again.

I usually get clear results with my magic. I do a ritual or an evokation of goetic demons, a couple of days later opportunities open up, I take them and results come about. So I know for sure that I am creating effects on her. I also confirmed through a reading that she was interested in me, so I know things are not going completely wrong. However, whenever I try to take action in this case, things always get weird. I don’t know what to say, get unclear signals or she disappears for a while.

I’ve tried everything - daily rituals, working with a magician, and even doing evocations with goetic demons. While I’ve had success in other areas of my life, I still can’t seem to get this girl. I’m at a loss for what to do next. Any suggestions?

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That reading is wrong. You want it to be the case which is why it become bias.

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The reading was not done by me, but through a magician who has proven to provide accurate results on past requests.

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But this magician is wrong. If she was interested in you then you would have no problem with getting her. Move on dude and focus on your purpose.

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I have 100% verified that he has been right on all instances for different topics so far and is supposed to be wrong on this one?

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Weird in what way? What kind of attraction spell did you do?

In this case, doing an attraction spell is redundant. It’s fixing a problem that doesn’t exist.

Women must feel safe with you and have trust, no matter how attracted they are, to allow themselves to act on it: a woman’s mind easily overrides her lust every time.

So attraction spells alone work on men more, but may not be the useful approach for a woman. as that’s probably not the problem here.

Bear in mind attraction spells can be percieved as baneful attacks on free will. This makes the target feel unsafe and run away.

So putting some work into understanding what her blocker is, whether it’s mistrust, a minunderstanding, another guy or simply waiting for you to say something or whatever, would be my suggestion.

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In areas like for example money and health I usually perform my magickal work and then take mundane actions like adjusting processes in my business, reading about nutrition and making adjustments as well. The results come rather fast as it’s magickal work supported by research and correct actions taken.

When I approached her initially I received a reading that she thought I am playing games on her and that I am supposed to put more work into getting her. I went more direct and asked her out, which in turn was too hard a switch and she claimed to have a bf, which was not true.

When I saw her again after a few months at the gym she starred at me for a while and looked kind of serious. I was not sure what to say and thus didn’t say anything and moved passed her. Through a reading I was told that she took my silence as being annoyed by her, even though she would have been interested to conversate with me. This is what I mean by things get weird when I take action.

I find myself overthinking, not knowing what to say, having said the wrong things etc.

I had a servitor created by a reliable magician to bring about a relationship with her and me and am feeding that servitor with Reiki on a daily basis. The other servitors he created for me work just fine. Besides that I have been performing some visualization rituals from time to time, but eventually kept relying on the servitor to get the job done.

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May I suggest that you leave her alone. There are other women. You’re wasting too much time and energy into getting this one woman. Just leave her be.

Okay, good. Keep focusing on improving yourself, improving your life. The right woman will come. And, who knows, by not talking to her anymore, she may all of a sudden become interested in you.

Women are weird like that. They have a tendency to be vain and want what they can’t have. It is human nature in general to have a desire for something that’s scarce.

To prove my point, try talking to other women at the gym or wherever in front of her. (The “make her feel jealous” ploy. Classic.) Once she sees you getting attention from other women, she will become interested in you.

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It’s all about demonstrating you have options with women. The classic one if we talk online dating it’s where you have a picture of you with 2 women that look like they desire you. That’s where female friends can be useful.

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I haven’t talked to her in months. When I started going to the gym more often and stopped going to the library where I used to see her daily, she started showing up at the gym too. That’s where we bump into each other nowadays.

I’ve been seeing another girl that I met at work last year. We were dating for a few months, but then I lost interest and ended things. But I still couldn’t stop thinking about the girl I really liked. Yesterday I was hanging out with a new girl and I noticed how much she resembled the one I couldn’t forget. It got me thinking again.

She saw me talking to another girl at the gym, and was staring at us quite a bit while we were having a good time. I’ll for sure work towards making her jealous. Thanks for the suggestion :slight_smile:

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I think these readings need more verification, they seem to be yielding misleading and unhelpful results so that trusting them is causing you problems. This is possibly from too much emotional energy riding on the outcome. It’s not reasonable to just assume a reading is accurate in this case.

I do actually agree with this in this case, basically: Ideally verify the UPG with at least one other reading from a person that doesn’t know about the first. However, it’s been said we don’t need to repeat this over ad over. We are looking for solutions here.

Well, no reader is 100 percent… this just makes it less likely he is accurate on he remaining readings, not more. However this reading screwed you over, so it speaks for itself. :woman_shrugging:

It sounds like you’re giving her really confusing signals now. You made contact, maybe it’s time to just talk to her like she’s a human being. You ignore her then you ask her out hen you ignore her then you date others… she probably thinks you’re a total player or a flake. You gotta get real and talk to her.

Ask her about herself and let her do the talking.

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From my own personal experience, targeted love spells rarely work (if ever).

General attraction spells will work, but not when they’re targeted at someone specific. I grew frustrated for a whole year doing it, and then I just gave up and have been feeling much better since. There are plenty of stories like mine in these forums.

Casting spells on someone specific will only make you obsess over them and expect things to change. I’m not saying it’s totally impossible, but getting results is rare.

Why? Well, it could be for several reasons. Perhaps the person is meant to be with someone else, perhaps you’re on different vibrational levels, perhaps their higher self rejects you, perhaps your higher self rejects them and deep down knows they’re no good for you, etc.

Either way, casting targeted love spells will only hurt you and make you obsessed with your target, keeping you from moving on and meeting new, better romantic prospects.

The second I gave up, I had new suitors in line waiting for me, and I wasn’t so anxious about “my beloved” coming to me or anything. I gave up completely and it brought me PEACE instead of the constant emotional unrest I had while “magickally pursuing” them.

So you got two different paths ahead of you: you can keep trying forever, hoping one day your target will throw herself at you, or you can move on and meet new people that might be better for you.

The choice is yours.

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Apologies, but what does UPG mean? I am not familiar with the term.

I agree with your suggestion to consult with another person and get a second reading. Is there someone you would know who has proven to be reliable and offers readings?

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This is good I would say: women don’t stare at people they don’t like, and at least all your flipping back and forth is making you look mysterious.

So, what’s not going to happen, is that she initiates a conversation. I think you want this to happen again, and he next time smile and nod in her direction. You know her already, you’ve spoken, so act like you’re old acquaintances.

At this point, I would thing a working on yourself to hep you be more confident and relaxed will help a lit. Confidence is very attractive and you need her to not pick up on your anxiety and have it make her anxious. You’re in he gym right, you’re fit and healthy, probably young and good looking: use that, trust yourself, give her the chance she wants and say something nice to her.

Idk, ask her if she changed her hair because it looks really nice today or something.

“Unverified Personal Gnosis.” It’s one step removed from “making it up”.
It means only one person has received the information and applied the interpretation to it. The interpretation part is usually where it gets tricky. When two or more people independently get the same gnosis, then we call it verified and it’s worth considering with less uncertainly.

s there someone you would know who has proven to be reliable and offers readings?

UPG should always be verified by your own divination or take it with a pinch of salt. In this case, it was verified incorrect based on the results in real life.

As you are a mage, I would always encourage that you become independent of external readers. We have a Requests thread, but the point of this forum really is for us to support each other through out learning and not to rely on others: and we have a ton of tutorials for you try.

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You could make a Venus talisman that attracts women in general, go to a club with it on, and you could then use this to your advantage by taking pictures of yourself with these women and post them on instagram. If you have female friends already you can ask them to take some pictures of you with them, so you demonstrate you are wanted by women.

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This is called social proof: a woman is more likely to initiate conversation when she sees that other women find you attractive. Please note that the target staring at you when you are with other women does not necessarily denote jealousy and it could be a fatal mistake to assume it does.

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There is no need to make anyone jealous. The rule are the same whatever it’s about a specific girl or girls in general. Often if it’s done to make her jealous it backfires because the other women finds out and then detects you are desperate.

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love spells work with feelings someone who doesn’t have feelings for you won’t fall in love with you,A person who only feels you as a friend will not fall in love with you with spells because they have no feelings that can create love.

already existing feelings work in love spells.

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This isn’t really true. Women are not a monolithic type that all think and react the same way.

For me, as an example, an am enormously proud: I instantly lose interest if I see a crush with another woman. She can have him, and I see him as used goods. That will wear off, but I prefer to get myself a guy who’s dick wasn’t in someone else the previous night, because, ew. Yeah I’ll go get my own, thanks. :joy:

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I’m betting this has to be the key.

From Corwin Hargrove’s new book Celestial Angel Magick:

“Apply pressure to the weak points. Improve weaknesses not strengths. Change things that change easily. Do enough of this, and big changes happen. Your job is not to pack the building with explosives. Your job is to remove one brick and watch it collapse.”

In OP’s case, someone having feelings for them is the “weak point” so to speak. That will jumpstart your spells and/or the spells will gain momentum.

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