Hey, I’ve read through this forum pretty extensively for the last few days, as I’m starting to reach the end of my rope. I haven’t really seen anything that fits what I’m looking for, and the search feature isn’t turning up anything relevant. It’s odd-- there are a million threads on how to bring your ex back, but none on how to move on from the feelings if you aren’t willing to force their will.
So as the title says, I’m looking for a spell to move on. This place isn’t a blog and some of the members here are pretty inclined to get snide, so I won’t go in depth on my experiences until the end of this post-- but in short…
I’ve been head over heels for a guy I know for a year now. We broke up because of a miscommunication caused me to misinterpret something he said and end the relationship. He preformed a basic ritual to “kill” his feelings for me immediately due to how distressed he was, and now thinks his feelings are gone forever and will never come back. He treats me the same as he always has though, and evidently it’s not impacting him, but it’s just making me love him more.
Within the last week I cast a spell to remove relationship problems, this one in particular. I’m definitely being quite impatient, but I’m also massively cynical (hence the name) and am already prepared for whatever effect it has to not make him love me again.
Now, for the unnecessary supplement information:
Our relationship is a real fucking soap opera, but the way things have happened between us makes me believe we may be Twin Flames, if that in any way impacts what I need to do. Our relationship is really capricious, we’re like mirror images of the same thoughts and feelings but with different resulting actions, and we’ve left each other and then come back (platonically, obviously) multiple times in the relatively short time we’ve known each other. He dated a girl for a month or two when we weren’t talking, but they broke up and we drifted back to each other soon after and he told me the things that happened in his life that caused him to leave her that he didn’t even tell her (what a good relationship, right?).
He’s definitely the most important person in my life, and he says it’s mutual, and he does things for me he would never do for anyone else (like telling me things he won’t even tell his lovers, lol), and he still wants to have sex with me/cuddle me/kiss/protect me/etc and says it’s just because we’re “really close”. It’s really important for me to have the comfort of being truly loved, and even if he’s just in denial I’m tired of having these feelings for him when he either can’t or refuses to have them for me. They’re starting to eat me alive. He’s my best friend and evidently I’m his as well, and I don’t want to lose him, but these feelings are starting to piss me off. I don’t think they’re going to fade naturally-- we didn’t talk for two straight months to help me move on and my feelings were still there the moment we came back together.
So, in short: Do you have a spell to help me move on? Would it even work if he’s my Twin Flame? Is there even a point in using a spell to move on with the way he acts around me? Should I just use one of the millions of love spells? Or am I just completely kidding myself?