She probably means she doesn’t like assumptive assholes… There’s a difference between being mature, confident and strong, and acting like a jerk. Be nice, it’s not unmanly to be considerate. Just don’t grovel but don’t be bossy either, just be you and work on things as a team.
You have different asks for each one, so address them separately.
Maybe…
“I, [name], ask you Paimon to persuade my loved one [name] that she has been too harsh, to remember the good times, wish for them back again, and desire to help me fulfil her needs.
I ask you, Amon to rekindle [name’s] liking for me, and fan the embers into the flames of love… I ask you, Berith, to hide my flaws that my love [name] sees my good side and overlooks my shortcomings. I sincerely wish to be the provider, lover, protector and everything for my love, until death do us part. "
Do not put a timeframe on it, that tends to mess magick up and miss opportunities.
In a mundane world, pretty much, but that’s what magick is for Magick will bring you the chance to get in communication going again and then you can tell her what you told us.
Just be honest and tell you her you were trying to please her and listened to bad youtube video advice and that’s not really you. Ask her to help you know what she needs from you to be happy and that you just want to be there for her.
So say Happy birthday. If she says thank you just say “You’re very welcome :)” and play it cool. You could say you still regret hurting her and wish things had been different: but don’t ask for anything form her.
She probably won’t reply, but that’s ok: you asked Paimon to get her to contact you, the ball is in her court after that, let him do his work and her play her hand.
Yeah, so, you have to get over this. You were mean to her and you got what you asked for. It’s over and done.
You expect her to move on and forget right? And you told her you’d forgot it… time to forget it. This is old energy, you are doing magick to wipe this out, so stop feeding this energy by bringing it back into your mind.
This is part of your magick, and it takes a lot of self control. Control your thinking to control your world.
Why do you even waste time on her? She is not attracted to you. Move on. If you cannot do that you cannot get much success in magick because it takes a discipline mind to practice magick.
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I’m seeing a few posts, all from newbies when it comes to magick, who are hurt and heart broken want an immediate resolution of their issues.
I really wish magick worked this way. Especially love magick. I can tell you from first hand experience, if there’s no attraction chances of that magick working are nil.
There’s this woman who’s a practicing witchcraft for a while and had a thing for me. She did many spells to get me to like her or be attracted to her including using my hair. It didn’t work. Because there’s no attraction whatsoever from my side. Zilch. I knew what she was doing when tried to get my hair as that’s when I got into magick as well and read about using personal links in a spell. Edit: I should mention, I also had 33 Days Master Protection in place (from Damon Brand’s Magickal Protection) so that helped as well.
There’s another caveat to magick. If you are naturally good with women, love magick will work wonders almost instantly. I rarely need to use magick when it comes to relationships. When I use it, it’s to improve myself. For me, money magick requires some serious workings—as all my life I’ve had blocks regarding money since childhood and surely previous lifetimes.
As I have said before elsewhere, desperation never works when it comes to unrequited love and rarely in magick.
Actually she was attracted to me in the beginning but i was mean to her in some instances without truly understanding her all because i was blinded by love and wanted instant relationship
She was the only girl that ive been thinking about for the past 6 months
Yep im not gonna talk to her again brother thanks for the advice. Do you think that wishing her with a simple “Happy Birthday!!” On april 14th is a bad idea? Which is 1 month from now?
Magick will bring you the chance to get in communication going again and then you can tell her what you told us. 
