Probably. We had a member this year, @Jnomadik, with the same issue, and his lusting for results was destroying his efforts to bring the person to him. He resolved his issue with patience and was successful, so take a leaf out of his book, he did well. 
You may be having a similar issue.
If you are experienced, and have already tried several spells, then it’s time to stop and let them bake. Or maybe accept that this is not the target’s will and your will is not enough to override it.
Please remember our rules that we do not insult other members here. We also do not allow members to tell others what they can and cannot say. As long as a post is within the rules, it stands, and all opinions are welcome, if not to you, perhaps to others reading this thread.
However, I will close this thread if you cannot stay civil.