Liked reading this because I can very much relate. No ritual or anything, I just get the urge to inquire about certain spirits who have suddenly been popping up quite a lot around me. Sometimes, I even try to scope out which spirits are the most compatible for me regarding workings by shuffling and picking from only the Minor Arcana cards, as there is a list of correspondences of each (Goetic) spirit to a card.
I agree that they are indeed very straightforward lol. Most of the time, you’d just know from the get-go who wants to work with you or not at all. I agree as well that Forneus’ reading seems the most positive so far, but maybe I wouldn’t discount Dantalion and Saspu just yet? I have not worked with both of them AT ALL, so it’s perfectly okay for you to not mind my reply here, but here’s what I see:
With Dantalion’s reading, I immediately got the impression that the relationship would require some sort of emotional sacrifice? As if you have to let go of emotional baggage, wounds, etc. and walk away from certain things you held close to your heart and embark on a journey to the unknown under his guidance? I feel like he is offering you something positive too with the Ace of Pents, something that can be a stepping stone for you career, finances or other practical endeavors. It’s just that the compatibility between you lies in you leaving something behind first and bravely walking towards something much better but remains unseen for now. Over-all, the picture I get is a working relationship with positive potential too if you water that seed—in this case, turning that 8 of Cups upright and making the emotional sacrifice. It may also simply mean that you will be asked to go out of your comfort zone by him when it comes to how you feel and deal with your emotions… tests, if you will. And when you do accept and respond to the tests correctly, a fruitful and positive relationship may begin.
With Saspu, I’m interpreting it over-all as more of a strict teacher student-type of relationship, but I’m feeling it’s not without positive benefits too. The Chariot RX feels like your connection would be quite unpredictable and lacking control unless YOU take over the reins and control how the relationship is going to proceed. What are your boundaries, do’s and don’ts, specific goals in mind, etc. I feel like the lesson might even be harsh because what he/she has to offer you is 8 of Pents = a card of consistent hard work. Reminds me of this well-known spirit I’m currently working with now, actually. But in that 8 of Pents lies a positive opportunity for you to completely better yourself too, I think. Like Dantalion, he/she may help you with practical endeavors as long as he/she sees you completely working your ass off for it. At times, I even get that he/she may test your patience and dedication to your craft or your relationship with him/her.
At the end of the day, it still depends on what you are currently looking for and feel like you’re ready for. So I understand why you may not choose such trying relationships because IME, it can be heavy and tiring indeed. Frustrating too. But you know, the harshest teachers make the greatest mentors and allies… and in time, the fiercest friends and most devoted protectors too.
Wishing you well on future workings with your spirit of choice! Do keep us updated on how things are going with you and Forneus as well.