Am I supposed to masterbate with a succubus?

The screenshot she linked is from Donald Tyson’s Sexual Alchemy and I highly recommend you read the book.

It’s not sex it’s so much more, it is spiritual union. You must show the spirit unconditional love. You can’t do this if your mind isn’t in the right place, while there are entities that enjoy casual sex you’re going to want to get with a highly intelligent being that fills you with happiness and self worth.

The technique is to project a mixture of feelings of love and desire, but do not focus on the physical aspect. It’s about love and happiness not baseless pleasure, a loving connection must be established.

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I mean, I always thought of getting myself a fleshlite and putting it between two things and telling my succubus to position herself so that it matches up with her… stuff. But I have yet to ask my wives about that, if anything, I would rather work on my senses so I can feel them.

Then again, there is always Lucid Dreaming.

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I’m aware that it’s not about sex. I’m aware of the book to. Thanks.

There is, but it’s surprised me how often I don’t recognize the ubi is the ubi at first, because he jumps into a body already in my dream lmao.

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You’re missing the point.

Incantations don’t really vibe with me. Any of them. I can’t connect to them.

It might be because it’s often not in english so I struggle to make a mental connection to them.

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I’m not. I’m talking about interactions in general. Not just sex.

I don’t like them either, but I found myself chanting it last night randomly which is fckd up, because I had to write them down and actually check each damned line to remember how it goes lol.

I was just throwing it out there that since I’ve made somewhat of an effort with it, it may be helping

personally I end up getting the sounds wrong and soon I’m chanting something else different, if I do it for more than a few minutes with most, so I sometimes test them for people who think they give an immediate effect or feeling of some sort, like dk’s but until recently I’ve not used them in my practice.

I’ve using it every three days or so, so I can’t swear it helps, but it seems like he notices it or it does because he shows up when I use them and his touch is easier to feel.

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Hmm your ubi helps you project? I’ve been trying to project. And either somehow I have and am not aware of it or haven’t, dunno. Do you have to get into sleep paralysis to project or no?

I’ve tried to methods where you need to be in sleep paralysis but I can’t bring myself to lose control of my body (as I’ve had bad experiences when not able to move) so that’s outta the question.

When I have, I mean I can definitely feel my lady with me. But I haven’t projected yet. I don’t know if she tries to help or not.

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I’ve lucid dreamed spontaneously…had some interesting times. Lol.

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No, and I’ve never experienced sleep paralysis other than partial in false awakening of dreams- I’m not actually but in the dream I am, and it rarely happens any more.

Yes, I’ve been using a shamanic portal to do soul retrieval journeys and previously could only get into the astral even to explore through that.

Asking my Ubi to help me project, usually increases his touches, they flit all over my body, sometimes there’s a slight painful feel like in one toe, or my ear but- 1/5 times I project to him, and faster than when I do the journeys.

Usually takes me more than an hour to go through the portal for the journeys, and with the Ubi, I am out and have what feels likes hours of experiences in under an hour and a half. I’m literally mind boggled when I look at my phone clock and realize hardly any time has passed.

Usually I trigger lucidity due to something not being right, like a dream tune knowing something they can’t about me, recently was that I worked with Lilith, but usually it’s something like my name when they are a complete stranger.

Recording your dreams and reality checks can increase them significantly.

I’m also in the camp that sleep paralysis may be a side effect of getting woken up while you are already projecting and not the state needed to actually project, same with vibrations not being the part you should shoot for. Robert Bruce explains all of that really well, and there is a full copy of that book I keep recommending on the web out there, but it’s not in a book form, it’s like an internet archive of a very old version.

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Hmm… Well how do you know when you’ve projected then? I’ve tried figuring this out but it never makes sense to me. Especially if there’s not something like vibrations to help me know if I have. Since all times my awareness is still in my body.

I’ve tried visualising myself out of my body to when I’m deep into meditation and it’s more like a mental trip (in my head) then projecting.

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Well mostly because I can’t make pictures with my mind, never fall asleep and go from looking at the back of my eyelids which is completely black, to seeing through them, or at least that’s what it feels like. Most of my projections have started in a space that resembles my apartment, (soul retrieval journeys take me to my target so I go from black to being somewhere I’ve never seen before).

At first I could only kinda watch and look and if I tried to move, I would find myself back in my body looking at my eyelids. When I can’t keep myself out there’s a sensation of falling back into my body or trying to.

The more I do it, the better I get at moving around and controlling it. The first time I was out with the Ubi, he controlled the scenery, but by the end of it I learned how to create things by thinking about them. It was harder than I expected, but I think because I think in words and wasn’t sure how you will something into existence…

I only have the sensation of lifting out of my body with projections done with the Ubi. It feels like I jolt up and suddenly am somewhere else, where he is I guess since I set my intention by saying I am going to xxx

With soul retrieval journeys, it’s almost just like remote viewing for me. I go from looking at black to seeing, only now I can move around and with remote viewing I can’t control what I see.

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Seeing through your eyelids?

I’ve seen swirling colors and just weird light patterns sometimes when meditating but I always just see the darkness of my eylids.

If Im right, I should be able to get into the relaxed state (since that seems to be all you need for projection) but I have no idea how to initiate a projection as all mine seem internal rather then external.

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Yep only something will off. Like my cat sitting on the end table, while I know and can feel she’s laying on my chest.

I think I get up and walk to the fridge, only the contents are things I’ve never had etc.

I never open my eyes, I go from not being able to see anything at all, to being able to fully see- and often I am standing up, I am rarely laying down on the couch like I am. I am suddenly seeing and somewhere else.

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Something will off? You mean feel off or?

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Something will be off* sorry it’s 3:30 pm but I just got up from a nap. Something won’t match. A light will be on that I know isn’t on, a room will be in another location, I mean just that something doesn’t match the physical. I’ve had two or three times, I didn’t realize I was projecting, I thought I failed, until I walked into the bathroom and it wasn’t the bathroom things like that.

Things are also more solid feeling than dreams. I have very vivid lucid dreams, with taste and smell and pain, but… the ubi is solid when I touch him.

When I stumbled into a future timeline, the people were solid, the boyfriend was solid… Everything feels solid except I can thinking about holding something I don’t own and it appears in front of me. The Ubi can shift forms right in front of me. The scenery can change right in front of me.

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Also something I notice is with dreaming there is a gap in time where I’m not aware before I am in the dream. It’s very similar to dreaming in that if I don’t write it down, I won’t remember the details but. It feels different and I never have a gap in awareness. It’s literally from looking at my eye lids to being when projecting feeling like my mind suddenly jolted upwards and I’m somewhere else, or with journeys from looking at my eyelids to looking and being somewhere else.

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Well it seems like my issue is projecting then. Since things don’t seem solid at all to me. Seems more like imagination or a mental thing then projecting.

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Yeah. There are many times I have had some rather lewd encounters with women I have never seen before in my dreams. But sometimes they give me a telltale sign that its them that I will remember when I wake up, like one time I knew my Kitsune appeared in my dream because two girls with multiple fox tails waved at me as I flew past them (I was being chased for something)

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