Not sure of what approach I want to take with my ex and his girlfriend, which he keeps denying. I’d like to know what you, the reader, would do in my situation and what approach you’d take if you were in my shoes. I’ll try to make this as short as possible.
My Ex: He conned me out of 35K in the year and a half we dated. The entire time, he made himself look like he was going through a major financial struggle and me being the idiot who cared & loved him helped. Only to learn that him, his family and his girlfriend of 2 years (which he always denied and said she was just a family friend) benefitted from my help.
The Girlfriend: I told her what happened between him and I and she confirmed they had been together for 2 years. I was surprised that she acted very mature and understanding towards me once I confronted her about the situation. Initially I had no ill intentions towards her, until he (my ex), reached out and told me to stop harassing her. She told him a bunch of lies I never said, in fact, they came out of her mouth. I even have messages between her and I but he refused to believe me and said he would call the cops on me if I kept harassing her. She now parades her adoration for him online but he still makes no public acknowledgement that he’s with her. Why is this important? Because now I also want her to pay for her BS stunt of making me look bad. She’s 40, still lives at home with her mom and has no job. Yet she portrays herself to be this strong, independent badass who is not to be messed with. People who have seen them together think she did something to him (spellwork). When I say she is FUGLY, it’s not out of jealousy or because I’m scorned. People are seriously shocked when they see a picture of them two. Hence why I never believed that he’d be with someone like her.
Anyway, I want both of them to pay. To lose everything and be absolutely miserable and suffer every way imaginable…but slowly. But I’m still wondering how to make this happen or what approach to take. Your advice is greatly appreciated.
P.S. - He has yet to pay me back anything and I did look into suing him but even that worked out in his favor. This is money I worked hard for and refuse to let him or his gf get away so easily.