This topic caught my eye, because there was some snarkiness on a Facebook group I belong to on this subject.
I also watched a Youtube video where a guy went to interview “real witches”. I hate myself for it, it was so shallow, but…the older witch said she thought witches were born, not made. And I have the book “Witchcraft”, which I picked up for some pointers on things, not my whole practice, and the author again makes the claim witches are born.
So this statement really sticks out to me right now. What does it mean to be a “born witch”? I suppose we could look at how practice influences DNA. That’s not too weird for me, since some researchers are now saying generational trauma can influence DNA, I think I read for several generations.
Looking at my own background, which is all I really have…I could say my mom was a witch, I suppose. She was unfortunately very mentally ill, so it did not benefit her, at all. And she came from a background in which organized religion was the only acceptable outlet for any spirituality. I know that when my brother and I were very little, she conducted a seance in the apartment where we lived. My aunt, who was living with us at the time to help take care of us, got us out of that place immediately. I think it was because Mom was obviously not well, and the people she had around her were not good. So I don’t blame my aunt, at all.
Then there’s me. I won’t bore you anymore than I already have, but I’ve always been drawn to the spiritual and all my childhood religion, and my chosen religions as an adult, have discouraged the occult, to the point of fear and revulsion. Still, I’ve been drawn. I can’t help it.
I have two children, grown now: a son and a daughter. My son has no interest in the occult, and identified with my more religious side. My daughter has a great deal of interest in the occult, and we discuss astrology and the tarot as easily as others talk about school or boys. I know she got that from me.
Now: what about that is “hereditary”? My daughter and her friend, whose mother is a Reiki practicioner, are known in their school as the “witchy ones”. Of course, this being 2020, witchcraft is very out there, some call it “trendy”, so it’s easier for my daughter’s friends to identify her and be okay with it. It’s easier for me to teach her what I know about astrology, tarot, and some energy things I do, and it’s easier for her to accept it. Contrast that to my own upbringing, as a child in the 70’s and a teenager in the 80’s. No way. I tried so hard to be a good Christian, even up to just ten years ago. I gave up. My occult “whatever” is too strong. But can you call that hereditary, a function of DNA? I don’t know.
I think of a “born witch” or “born occultist” as someone who feels that pull and cannot deny it, no matter what. That’s as much as I can definitively say. I suppose you could say you were born with it. You could say you were born into it. Does it matter?
Those who can claim hereditary, pedigreed, acknowledged witch ancestry I think are very lucky. I’m glad for them…they have a lot of the work of learning done for them, and an environment that encourages it, even if it must be secret from everyone else. The rest of us feel the call, but have to fight. We have to do the fight our parents, grandparent, and other ancestors may not have been able to wage.
If someone is a true, hereditary witch, that’s great, but don’t get too proud. You are the beneficiary of someone else’s hard work, someone else’s battle, someone else’s public shaming and perhaps execution. If that’s anyone here, I hope you appreciate it. And keep in mind, no matter how long your line of witches and occultists, someone, if you look back far enough, had to be the first. Someone in your line had to be the one to look elsewhere, to be brave enough to go where no one else in their family or society would go. Either they were born with real ability or real curiosity…I suspect it would be both. Also, as far as family, I think that if we could all go back far enough, we’d find the witch in our family, if we knew what to look for. They’ve always been everywhere.