What did I lack? What was the issue?

Love, Sex Magick & Relationships
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Hey everybody, it has been 4 years since I wrote anything here, glad to see familiar faces (profile pictures) again :slight_smile:

Looking back at my experiences with love and lust magick, I now see that almost none of them were potent enough to give me what I truly wanted. Yes, I got results that I can’t ignore, things that really surprised me at that time, but they were small steps towards achieving love and attraction, where still, the end goal was not met. In retrospect, it was just getting scraps.

Or perhaps, my efforts were just a means to an end.

Strangely enough, any other type of magick gave me tangible results. Things like wealth or healing for example. But now from where I stand, I still cannot understand what was holding the love magick back. What did I lack? What do I lack? Sometimes I can’t help but feel like love magick is messing with me.

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I think you’re just noticing that love magick is like this - it’s really hard to do and getting do-do results is actually a huge win.

Going with general attraction and not targeting a specific person helps a lot.

When targeting others, it’s often neglected that the target is also a creator being, with thier own free will, and as the love magick is technically a psychic attack they have the high ground to defend themselves. If they sense it on ay level it cam make them see you as a dangerous person and they can run.

It can go in the other direction and get backlash where the operator just gets the effect blown back to them and they get obsessed and more miserable. It can also work too well and in rare cases send the target mad. Adding “if it be his/her will” avoid this for the most part.

So that’s a crude rundown of what can happen. if you browse this category you will see the posts and what people say. Bearing in mind they tend to post when it’s not working or when they just started and there’s a skew towards failures, but there are some successes in the success threads.

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That is so funny for my is the oposite all work especial love magick but not the whealth one maybe our afinity with some energy is difrent levels that is why some are better at one type and harder gets results from other

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Want to trade places? Give me the love magick and I’ll give you the wealth magick :laughing:

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I would glad exchange it if we find a way​:wink:

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Absolutely. I always say, magick is highly personal and complex - because we are complex. All our individual beings and environments are different. And as soon as other humans are involved those complexities multiply.

That also makes troubleshooting complicated. There’s things you can look for, but the devil is in the details. :slight_smile:

Basic troubleshooting (based on the discussions around here)

  1. Get feedback -
    a) Through divination
    b) Develop energy sensitivity and intuition to sense the energy flows and blocks
  2. Layer Workings
  3. Get in the corridor - do everything you can physically and personally to be attractive
  4. Understand the landscape and blocks:
    a) The Needs of your target(s)
    b) The Needs of other people affecting the targets

Expecting the targets to act like static objects also causes fails. A working that was fine in January can fail just because they met someone new in February, or had a personal upset so they’re not in the emotional space to work with you - energy is constantly changing and you may have to adapt or be patient.

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Yeah that was for me too i was like between paths and i got a crush yeah the old stupid love desire make me research for a week prepare my thing and go in forest in midle of night to sign a blood pact with lucifer where i asked him for his normal powers he give charisma courage glamor etc and get his protection against karma/fate and that i dont want manipulation but to open me doors and that i wanted to be first friend with that person al good i had my sign i asked for aceptance and in 2 days i got that person atention fast forward 1 month we where friends in 3 months i know more about it but decide was only my desire and i remained friends so yeah all happened as you said at the end of this post but lucky for me put me on my path

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If you want to work on wealth magick, I can recommend Bethor, Iophiel and Sandalphon. I’ve had success with them.

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Maybe i will try them in future now i work with gremory on it and i have good results but before i tryed each big one Belial lucifuge Mamon bune clauneck and nothing worked

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I have been thinking about a cause and perhaps its my lack of energy actually. There is certainly a pattern in my results, its always getting 1/10th of what I wanted, like getting the intro of a movie and the screen turns off. But strangely enough, the results are pretty precise and hit the target. I think the issue is the actuating force being low.

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My advice is if you can and you are ok with for energy is to go in forests or hike a mountain for the ritual when i do it in this places i seen my results are much better then home or on river banck

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I have already tried X general love rituals to attract at least half of what I am looking for in a partner and none of them ever worked out lol :rofl: And I even tried going out by myself, starting conversations on my own (since I am a guy) and using dating apps, but nothing ever came of it…

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Come on man that’s not helping :rofl:

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Apparently I am one of those who need help too…lol :rofl:
But honestly, I dont dwell on it anymore….I am aware that its probably something I cant control…and maybe I am asking for too much as well

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For my case, I can say its tied to having low energy, or exerting less energy. I got precise results that were just a spark, not an actual flame.

Maybe I am wrong again, who knows…

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Are you a woman or a man? Because if you re a man the solution to your problem might be semen retention….

Are your rituals connected to specific entities or do you do it “solo”?

I ve already tried Sitri, but he doesnt really help with love. He just “strips you down”…

Dantalion is good tho…. he can bring a potential love into your life and help you “sense” whether things would work out with a specific person or not….My experience with him didnt really lead anywhere in the end even though the results were visible…..

I have a very complex personality and I know almost too specifically what kind of person I want in my life. I ve already had a few serious relationships and the older I get, the more “defined” my values become….

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I think we have similar experiences, my results were like that as well. There were visible things but not potent. And in the very end, they were not successful.

What can you tell me about semen retention? I would probably count as a chronic masturbator compared to those people :rofl: (sorry you had to hear that)

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Since I dont want to preach or talk about it like its some absolute truth, I will just summarize it like this…

As a man, when you stop masturbating and wasting semen, you build up a certain kind of energy…In some cultures they call it “life force” and I kind of agree with that since a human being is literally created from semen…. :grinning_face_with_smiling_eyes:

You build discipline and reduce lust….You learn to direct your sexual energy toward things that are more important than sex…

My ritual success rate is higher when I m on semen retention than when I am “empty”… I can also ignore potential astral parasites more easily and I am more decisive and focused during my rituals.

One of the best “glamours” for a man is semen retention, because people can feel that masculine energy from him….

It can also make you more visible to demons.

I know many other benefits but I really dont want to preach about it, and its against the rules of this forum anyway…..

But I definitely recommend it :grin:

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Ok, I think I found something. I was working with Sargatanas for love and obsession, I just did some invocations and sigil opening. I said what I wanted, visualized etc. and now I have been talking with two girls on twitter, they keep telling me very adorable stuff and some other profane stuff not fit for here :slight_smile: Its really intense…

I asked for both opportunities and obsession from Sargatanas, and it is working as intended.

I also experienced a weird thing at college two days ago,

So this girl sits next to me at the library, I saw her eyeing me but passed it off, it felt like nothing really. After a while, she turns her seat fucking directly towards me, and starts staring at me. I was kinda fucking scared to be honest so I kept watching family guy reels on my phone like I was not getting stared down.

After a bit of nothing, she gets up and walks off, some random guy comes and takes the seat instead. After she was back and saw her seat occupied, she just went to another seat.

5 minutes later that random guy gets up and leaves, the girl somehow fucking instantly sees it and comes to sit next to me again. Now this part actually made me kind of creeped out because obviously this is not a daily occurrence. And watching the movie “Obsession” before this whole thing did not help me man.

She must have gotten pretty comfortable in that seat, because she laid her head there and closed her eyes. I saw her occasionally opening her eyes to take a look. At that moment I was confused as to why a random person would act like this, let alone in a library. I still was not sure if this was a hint or not.

Unfortunately I had to get off and go to class, and the moment I stood up, she just stood up with me like she wasn’t just trying to sleep, packed her things and left.

I felt like a pussy for not saying anything, but I really was confused. I still am kinda confused. What the hell was that?

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That was a very overt invitation to start up a conversation. She probably decided you weren’t attracted and gave up.

As a general rule, so I’m told by a guy who calls himself a “player”, if you make eye contact twice that’s the minimum signal you can act on to go over and say Hi. You might ask if you know each other or comment on something nice about her, or ask what she’s studying.

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