I can agree there. Everything in terms of āsex magickā and spiritual sex is still all new to me
Youāll explore this if you have to. If you need or want it, and it will be fantastic I tell you, and it just became more realistic and intense times by times.
That hot feeling when their silky lips touches your burning skin,
your neck, your chest, your thighs and belly.
That feeling when you can sense their warm bodies nestles to yours, first tenderly, then tensely. How they became your passionate, gently Dominant to you.
That feeling when you can feel Their hips pushes against you, and you can feel Their massive penis moving inside you. And it is up to Them how They will handle you, at these moments - indulges you with Their hands and lips, or hold you hard.
It is easy to lost āin thisā hole.
They could be one in the same
Yeahh⦠they sure they take their sweet time letting them self known.
I belive i have a succubus around me also, but very patient one.
She touched me a couple of times but thats it.
If Iām being entirely honest it felt good.
This does make me wonder however. Do spirits get jealous of mortal lovers should you choose to have mortal lovers?
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It depends on spirits and their attitude. Some succubus/incubus are called only for sexual act, without the need of deeper bond or relationship, so mortal lovers/partners arenāt a big problem to them. But ofc thatās not a rule, and there might be spirits who are jealous, especially if they favor you in some specific way or are deeper connected to your energy/feed on it.
Just wondering mostly because I yearn for a physical relationship. Someone who is mortal and not just a spirit. Thatās something Iāve always yearned for
Some do and some are even jealous when you have mortal as a close friendā¦
go for it but first explain it to your spirits as I did⦠if they really care about you they will be okay with your mortal loverā¦
I am just thinking those spirits get jealous on mortals , but what if Magician get jealous on another spiritās lovers for example What would be the spiritās reaction ?
There should be a clear line. If a spirit is jealous because of your friends or even family and tries to limit your relationship with them, that means it clearly uses you and wants to gather control over you. Not all spirits are friendly, and even when they ācareā about you in their āspecificā way, there still should be your rules and your opinion in personal relationships with them. People often lose their vigilance for the sake of the promises of spiritual, deep love and the whole story ends on being sucked out of the energy or being manipulated.
Ofc deep relationships with spirits have their benefits but there always should be a need for cold observation.
Boundaries matter
True! I was in that situation when I was beginner
Jealousy wouldnāt be an issue at all if both parties are honest with their intentions in the first place. When that thin line of trust are crossed, for some reason, it gives a validity for jealousy.
Honesty is important, and with honesty thereās no reason for anyone to be jealous. If there is jealousy despite all of that, then something is wrong and it needs to be dealt with.
Honesty matter more. Without honesty, thereās no boundary. If you set a boundary to a spirit, would you accept the spirits boundaries towards yourself as well?
In my opinion, terms and conditions should apply both ways, or else it becomes an obstacle:
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I havenāt set boundaries, because I have no need for that. I mean, if youāre powerful enough and knows how to switch on and off your astral senses, or how to deal with a fully opened astral sense, then why set boundaries?
If you trust your spirits and have been honest from the very first day, then it shouldnāt be a problem.
When we become ābotheredā by someoneās presence in public or with other friends, then thereās a problem. Iāve had, so called, āfriendsā treating me just like that. Itās not nice. Itās humiliating. I feel my spirits 24/7, and even when I work. Iām not bothered, because they donāt break any boundaries.
Itās all about personal preferences, of course, but thatās just how I want my relationship with my spirits.
Sometimes I wonder why topics about spirit/human relationships are so filled with mentions of jealousy, mistrust, control etc. Whatās the point in being with a spirit if youāre basically going to have another shitty relationship that you might as well have with a human? Isnāt it, ultimately, about outgrowing your dumb kinks (I mean character flaws, not sexual kinks ). And shouldnāt it be the most normal thing in the world to communicate and be honest with oneself and each other? Itās hugely important to be careful, to know what you want, stand your ground etc. But first and foremost it should be about mutual respect, communion and trust, otherwise known as love.
Belial told me once that:
Loving more men by your pure heart , it is not a sin, my Dear. It never was⦠It is a beautiful magickal link between your very soul, an ancient power. Honest, healing and gentle.
Maybe because itās a projection of the human experience. Weāre all have experienced that to some extent and we assume and expect it to happen again and again. So we project that thought of mistrust, jealousy and control to the spirit which, inevitably, creates conflicts once again. Our own jealousy and mistrust will reflect on the spirit in one way or the other, and thatās asking for trouble.
Why ask if the succubus and the incubus is jealous? Why not ask that question on yourself? Maybe itās a self reflected question?
Many will definitely want more of your time than others, and be around you more frequently or interact on a more regular basis. As for jealousy, to me it doesnāt seem to be quite the right word to describe it. More like some are very adamant about when another friend or lover might be a really bad choice for you. Infatuation will often blind us to major red flags in the beginning of the a relationship.
Iāve experienced something like the spray, but to me it feels more like being painted. I never know whoās doing it, but to me it feels like really cool eyeliner being heavily applied and running down. Itās cool and always around my eyes, usually my left one and itās thicker than water but not quite a gel. It happens whenever and sometimes it honestly annoys me. Especially when itās almost constant in some moods.
My connection probably isnt as deep as yours but ive had episodes where my sexual drive was lacking and i was being visited every night.
Would wake up with scratches on my sides, light red ones like the sort your girl leaves on your back.