Good afternoon everyone 
I’m new here and apologize in advance if this topic has already been brought up. I would like to know how I could invite to cooperation spirit-helper? What practices would help me to attract the attention of a real helper, not a substitute. So far, I have managed to contact with entities of the lower order, demons, as I understand it, a couple of times. I will be grateful for hints, possible literature.
Ask and you shall receive. Be clear with your intention and wording.
Asking from help from “anyone” is (as I read it put once) “like opening your door in downtown Brooklyn and shouting ‘free beer and pizza!’” - yeah don’t do that.
Sit quietly, run a cleansing meditation, feel joy and you will attract what you feel. Send your request out into the cosmos, something like
“I need help, may all helping spirits that are as or more evolved than I, be invited to assist me with my highest good at heart. Thank you and so it is.”
Feel gratitude that your request is already manifesting.
Three times a day for the next moth, feel that gratitude, that your are supported and loved, feel that it’s ok to be you, and choose to place yourself in your ideal state, having confidence, joy and competence.
We call those “parasites” around here, (not to be confused with higher beings demonised by religions for political purposes), and they are there to feed. they only lie and are not worth your time or energy, but they are very easy to get rid of, for a mage. Knowing they’re there is half the battle. We have several tutorials for tried and tested methods if shooing them away mentally doesn’t cut it.
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My sincere thanks for your prompt reply. There was a situation not too long ago where I tried to contact a particular deceased person, but a parasite came instead. He was very talkative, even promised to help in one situation, and I was surprised when the request I had was fulfilled after a few days, but I doubted the success and the result so much that I seem to have nullified the result, and the situation was nullified. I needed to close the activities of a particular resource on the Internet, and after communicating with the parasite, that site really collapsed, disappeared from the search and a few days the search engine did not show it. But all this time I was in complete amazement and incomprehension, whether it really happened after my appeal, in general, I showed doubt and after a couple of days the site worked again.
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It’s not unheard of for regular entities that we work with every day to undo the work they did if they feel snubbed either. It depends who you’re dealing with.
Generally parasites feed on you without giving back. Most enjoy negative emotions and will hurt you to get you to make more yummy food for them, you will feel anxious, tired, and depressed for no reason. Some feed on sexual energy, or even wanted emotions though.
They usually don’t have the ability to do much of anything. Since it did the work, and you didn’t mention being drained, it may be it wasn’t a parasite as we’d think of it. It was at a level where it could feel butthurt though 
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I thought the same thing, that my hesitation was taken as a sign of disrespect, and the one who helped me was offended by my behavior. I tried to find out who he was, asked him to tell me about himself and give me a name. He was reluctant in this matter and gave me completely different names several times. But I have to admit that I did not feel any negativity from him and did not get discomfort, I wanted to explore and interact with him. After that I made a diagnosis on the questions: 1.Is the spirit I am communicating with angry with me? 2.How can I establish a relationship with my spirit and strengthen my connection with it? 3.Will my spirit help me in the future? I got answers, to summarize, 1). Yes, he is unhappy with my behavior and feels cheated. 2) I need to show wisdom, honesty and justice. I need to look at my relationship from the point of view of law and order, and understand what exactly breaks the harmony. I must show generosity and gratitude to spirit. I must strive to grow and expand my consciousness to better understand spirit. Let go of negative thoughts and emotions, because I have the potential to strengthen the connection. It may be necessary to apply some magical techniques and rituals to establish a relationship. 3)Yes, spirit will continue to help me if I follow the principles of honesty, gratitude, justice and wisdom. Don’t forget the past, strive for growth and development. I have every opportunity to continue to work together if I am honest with myself and spirit.
And now I don’t know what to do, I’m confused about who this spirit is, is it someone who can really become my assistant or am I just being tricked?
In the process of communication, this entity called itself several times by different names: Shez, Ires, Fimei.
It sounds to me like a fae. In the UK we’d call it a hobgoblin (hearth goblin), brownie or similar kind of seelie faery.
A hearth goblin is similar to a Domovoi in Russia. is he related to the house you live in at all?
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You know, I only now begin to realize that you are probably right, because at first he said that he appeared as a result of my magical influences, that I called him, and then I separately diagnosed whether there is an entity in my house, which lives in it permanently, and the answer was: "Yes, there is an entity in the house, which my house perceives as its home. I didn’t realize at that time and thought that I had 2 entities, one just near me, like a helper, and the other living in my house permanently. And now I think, thanks to you, that they are the same spirit?
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It fits the situation and feels like we’re on the right track. If correct then you’re actually very lucky. Hearth goblins bring great good fortune and luck to the house and your life. It also explains it’s having more of a personality.
I would say give it a peace offering, a nice gift that feels appropriate to you, like cookies and milk or something left over night (you can discard them in the morning). And talk to it, pick one of the names and tell it you’ll use that one. and to let you know if it has a preference. When things go right give it some thanks, and when things go wrong ask for help. Tell it the news of the day and keep it informed, like a friend you live with, tell it how your day was when you come home, what your plans are and generally be friendly unless it tells you not to chatter so much. If you don’t have a fireplace for it to live, spare a corner in it’s honor to be welcomed home and be comfy in. That should get you back on track.
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Thank you so much! 
The situation is really starting to clear up. Because I initially had such a nice feeling of ease and friendliness when we first interacted with him, but I unknowingly made a mistake and didn’t want to offend him at all. I even apologized to him later that I didn’t want to offend him and make him angry, but I still had doubts inside about what this entity was, which is probably why my apology was not fully accepted. I will definitely use your recommendations The main thing I want to convey to him is that I did not deliberately offend him, but because I am a newcomer and did not understand with whom I am communicating.
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I also asked him to confirm his physical presence with some action, I was persistent then, it probably pissed him off too. A couple of times I could clearly feel the touch on my arms and legs. But the very first time I asked him to manifest and blow out the candle that was burning during our communication, he did not do it. I feel like a complete idiot.
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