I won’t get into my past. But I now know it’s ok for me to want my family back and to curse those who have hurt me for no good reason. I don’t want anyone killed or seriously injured.
I was with my husband (I think it’s clear but my husband is not my son’s biological father) for about 2 years when my son’s longterm girlfriend came to live with us. Everything between me and my husband was fine. I have known him for almost a decade and never known him to be the kind of person he turned into (his best friends confirm this). I caught them in a situation they should have been in about 6 months later and immediately asked what was going on. He told me nothing. He swore to me and my son there was nothing. I know things, so I knew, but he promised.
Of course there was and it came out they got together a few months before after moving into a new apartment. My husband wanted to fix things. I then received a bad medical diagnosis. He promised to be by my side through it, but then instead of doing that and paying his share of rent, he moved in with her (her family, actually) and cut off communication with me.
Since then both of their lives have gone to hell (literally since they’ve been together). But she’s not too bright and I don’t think he gets that his present situation is due to what he did. To make things worse, she was cheating on him with my son but then she messed up and didn’t leave my husband and kick him out like she promised, so he’s done with her. My husband wants to come home but all of his friends sided with me (he didn’t seem to think they would) and cut him off. He has no real friends, has lost everything he’s worked for and has a dead end job he hates (that he just was passed over for a promotion at). She told my son (when they were still talking) that he’s basically mad all the time, barely spends time with her and she’s miserable. They are both languishing in a crappy situation because the thought of fixing all they’ve done wrong is too much (her family is no fun, either; we saved her from them only for her to go back once they got together - her mother played nice and went back to being evil).
I’m sick of being nice. I did do work to ruin her life (she crashed two cars, lost 2 jobs, is broke, etc.), but clearly it’s not enough. Nothing to him yet. She’s weak minded and not very intelligent. I don’t care what happens to her, (it’s too soon after their breakup for her to be killed or seriously injured) but I need her away from my son and husband. My son is handled for now, but the minute my husband leaves her she’ll go running back to my son.
So what do I want?
I want her to lose it on my husband. She’s been violent towards my son and he warned my husband about it. I want her to beat up on him and show her true self so he sees it from her and no one else. She’s not using any kind of magic or rootwork. She’s just a liar and uses sex. She lied that my son was abusing her (I know it’s not true and she admitted to me that she hit my son not the other way around). I want him to see her for the lying, manipulative snake that she is. Her Dad lives in another state; she can go there as well.
It’s her mother’s apartment so I want her to kick him out. Or the mother’s boyfriend who is a take no sh*t kind of guy. He can beat him up if necessary (gloves are off, not sorry).
I want my husband to feel CRUSHING guilt for what he did to me and my son. So bad that he can’t function. From what I know he already feels bad, but not bad enough to come get on his knees and beg for forgiveness.
I want my husband to see the real her and hate her. I recently read how someone put a spell on this woman’s boyfriend so bad that over the course of 3 days he went from loving her like crazy to hating her so much he couldn’t stand to be around her anymore and she didn’t hear from him since. Yeah, I want that.
I’ve known from the beginning that he wasn’t there because he wanted to be (and only shows her any affection when he’s about to get kicked out). Neither one can seem to get it done (leave or kick him out).
As I said in the beginning, I KNOW he is not this person. So I’d like him back the way he was: kind, honest, sweet, loving, hard working, loyal… By the way, I am sure he looks like a pedophile piece of sh*t. He’s not. Him and I have a large age gap. I am lucky to look like my son’s sister, not mother. He was friends with my son (no I’m not a pedophile either, he was more than of age when we got together and there was ZERO interest on my side before that). My son is fine with us being together; he just wants this other madness to end.
We are moving literally across the country so time could be of the essence.
Again sorry for the length. If I have forgotten anything, please let me know. Thanks in advance for any and all suggestions.