Today I’m going to help my MIL enter invoices and reconcile bank accounts, then I’ll listen to the silent hill 2 soundtrack in the bath. It just feels like a silent hill day.
Later I will go on a walk and meditate by the water.
As it is December, I’m thinking about this last year and what I feel I’ve accomplished and what I could have/should have done.
This time the last year, we moved back to Florida and I decided that I quit practicing. I associated it with the emotional pain I had to endure, and though it saved my life, I just wanted to leave it all behind and start new. I threw away everything, all my journals.
I got some money in the bank and maintained a job, but began to wonder why I was so weak minded. Why do I allow my boss and colleagues to walk all over me? Why do I want them to like me so much that I’d allow them to knock me down if it means remaining likeable and uncontroversial? Why, when I get a job, do I become so depressed that I can’t handle stressful situations and I end up exploding on everyone around me?
I wanted to improve, and I picked up practicing again. I bought ritual and altar items and began meditating and speaking with the demons who helped me before.
I look back on myself from that time and kinda laugh about it. I got one scan done and put my whole heart and soul into it, and never got another scan to confirm anything. I placed my trust in one magician and my naivety led me into a very odd place. Almost destroyed my own life mindlessly following another person. It was a weird place to be.
I quit again after that and began mending the pieces to my life and my idea of self. I realized that I’m a fucking idiot when I drink, and I can easily destroy my entire life when I get drunk.
Began practicing again once I moved on from the whole mess. I question what I read and hear from others now, and I’m learning to embrace all aspects of life and of human emotion. I am embracing my shadow again.
It may seem to me sometimes that I didn’t accomplish much this year, but after evaluating my progression as a person through this chaotic year, I can see how much I’ve grown.
I’m learning how to stand up for myself and how to deal with my feelings logically, and find solutions to my problems without letting them take over my life.
I am proud of myself for persevering through all of that insanity, and I welcome the new year.