Probably not. Assuming you performed the rituals effectively, from a place of seeing the manifest result not from a place of lack, even then love magick is the hardest to do.
The reason is, you have to fight against someone else’s free will, and it’s common or their will to be left alone is stronger than your will to get them. But there’s also a million things that can get in the way before you even get to that, and none of them are about the targets desire.
Fail to find out and address those blockers, and you’re wasting your time. Increasing desire doesn’t hep if the reason they aren’t responding has nothing to do with desire.
Well this isn’t “nonsense”, but it’s very obvious and generic. I would assume that in 3 years you’re already working on being physically and emotionally in line with the targets type.
It may be a good idea to set up a Plan B. Since this solution to your bein gin pain is failing, there are other solutions to consider. You can do magick on yourself to cut the cords, kill your desire and return to yourself. You could consider that at this point this pain has become parasitic, it’s eating you alive and that’s what you need to get rid of.
I use this to do that.
No, that’s kinda weird. There are many magickal techniques that rely on emotions. Some would say that you need emotions for all magick as they are integral to the work. Humans don’t even made decisions if they have no emotion. And would love magick even exist if you didn’t care?
In fact, if you browse our posts, many of them specifically tell you how to leverage emotion to move energy for magickal purposes.
So repeating the same activity expecting different results is crazy, don’t do that.
Imo you need to identify what’s going on on the targets side of things. How do they feel now? Do they even know you exist? Is there bad memories for any reason? Do you talk to them at all or are you blocked everywhere? … Basically what’s the gap that has to be crossed to move this person into feeling good about you?
Or to put it the other way, have you identified what the blockers are? Have you done any divination to see if entities of the targets side are protecting the target, if there’s another that s/he likes more, if s/he’s blocked phytologically somehow, if s/he’s far away and sees that as insurmountable, if you hurt them… all that kind of thing?
How well do you know this person to guess?
Remember love magick is baneful, and many targets automatically sense it as a psychic attack, realise you feel dangerous without even knowing why, and run away because you did a love spell. This is called “backfiring”.
We don’t know yet, but I think it’s wise to take a step back and do an analysis to figure out the why’s of the situation so you can address those specifically.