Let me facepalm myself for a moment
Disclaimer: Some of these realizations are due to a much needed dose of angelic energy, and of course, Pathworking the spirits of King Paimon.
Up till a few days ago, I had been stuck. My entire life seemed to be “stuck” and revolve around unhealthy attitudes toward sexuality and dependency. My posts mention my struggles with alcohol, an excess of casual sex in early college ect. I can now clearly identify what is the issue:
I was stagnating at the level of the sacral chakra.
Meaning, I did not really care to apply myself to anything that wasn’t relating to the lower animal. Meaning, I was looping around sex, pleasure, satisfaction without restraint. (Anybody who is experienced with Kundalini : please feel free to comment and clarify). In a humorous sense, I was stuck at the level of a college frat dude-bro. Lol.
Something about this pathworking has raised me to the level of the solar plexus chakra.
Experientially, this has been a broadening of horizons. My internal dialogue has gone something like this.
“You know, SilentSeeker, maybe I shouldn’t get hammered drunk all the time. Maybe I shouldn’t play video games for the whole day… Wow! It is quite rewarding to apply myself to my career. Wow, it feels great to not indulge all the damn time. It makes the moments when I do much sweeter. Damn, I really love reading. I love learning. Ha! I love growing, I love doing something that matters.” This is the phasing out of the Child, and allowing the Adult to emerge.
Experientially, I don’t feel “pulled” to porn; and my healthy sex drive has increased.
Rather than muddled, ambiguous sexual energy - I use and apply it purposefully. (I am rambling a bit, but that’s ok. I’m excited and I hope the reader notices this!)
Why does it matter?
Because most of my life and upbringing revolved around people stuck in these lower levels. The person who is my biological father - abusive, cruel, hurtful. He never learned to grow beyond his issues of security and belonging (lower chakras). Other people in my family (to them, I am not hating) have pathological fears of death and money (root chakra).
I feel humbled that I am able to grow where others choose to give up. I feel honored that my spirit friends have helped me evolve to a point where other people would die before arriving there.
I have suffered some to get here, yes. I have also learned that a masochistic approach to spiritual evolution and growth is unnecessary - yes, I’m referring to some of the “hardcore” approaches to growth on here. You know whos.
Anyways, rant over!
Thanks for reading you awesome people.
Edit: King Paimon is suggesting this bit: I must allow the changes to settle. Let my older way of life decay a bit, as it were.