[quote=“Pazuzu, post:11, topic:5487”][quote=“karenina, post:10, topic:5487”][quote=“adhi69, post:3, topic:5487”]Update : I am fucked right now… The girl has become obsessed over me… She is sending me romantic and sad songs … Which she sang herself … All the time.
Also she is threatening me …that she would kill her . If I would ever leave her… !
Any suggestions on what should I do now ???[/quote]
i d be so happy if this would happen to me, as in to get my target obsessed like this. Damn ![/quote]
How can you experience an intimate and meaningful relationship if you desire your other half to be obsessed with you? By needing him to be obsessed with you, does that not mean that you’re needy and deep within you’re afraid that you might lose him? I am not saying these due to the fact that i’m an all knowing god but i used to think this way too and my life was fucked inside out. Just a thought.[/quote]
Exactly , between the age of 14 to 25 and between three long term relationships ,i fucked about a hundred girls, few brazers on weekends in Holland too, i was trying to prove something to myself, like the stupid thought " they bigger the count , the more virile i was ", i was really lonely though and fucking random strangers lost its appeal, i value the companionship one has with a loved one rather than the sex stain filled empty bed left after she’s gone .