So this reply is for everyone. Thank you all for your thoughtful posts etc. Keteriya, you were very logical. But there is a a reason I am going about it the way I am. But it’s too late now , bad …happened.
Things just went from bad to is this shit happening because of something I did / or attached to me?..
Right after I posted that last reply I had mentioned my sister lost it over the fact that I saged my room because she had said no candles and no incense (because of my grandmother). At this point I haven’t slept in 3 days because of this crap. My grandmother texted me this morning saying she wants the rest of her candle stuff (that she GAVE ME). Somehow she has the support of my aunt and now mother who say I was trying to DESTROY her and stole her stuff. I decided to block my grandmother , sage and do whatever I had to do with this St Expedite ritual and be done with it.
Well I had one small red chime candle. I put it on altar with fast luck oil, did prayer etc. Based on flame there was def contact with spirit. I don’t KNOW that for a fact, but from my experience it wasn’t the candle. it popped and then got very high and steady then stayed that way. Like he was announcing himself.
About 3-5 minutes later I get a phone call. It’s my sister. She says she has talked it over with her husband and I have to go. TODAY. Where?! I said. I had apologized already, continued to do so., but she said decision is made. She was already having issues (she didn’t elaborate) and didn’t want people there so this was perfect. She said they will have an Uber meet her there in 2 hours, have all stuff packed.
Wow. I thought my sister was better then them. Then I called my mother. She was hysterical (mean not sad) on phone , said “YOU burned sage and you’re doing shit with candles like some weirdo!! WE ARE DONE. GRANDMOM IS IN TEARS. She said she gave you $1,000 to go out and get whatever you wanted…” (Hold up, if she had done that I would already have a full affiliate marketing campign going and at least one site up… what a bold lie).
Anyways, I didn’t get 3 words in. I haven’t done anything to my mother at all, but you’d think I was an abusive , horrendous son , I am in the fucking twilight zone. She then proceeded to block me. Meanwhile, my sister is pressingme to have all my shit packed and get a car load full of stuff in an uber and just go somewhere, destination “she doesn’t care” and everyone is now behind my grandmother that can help me. I am in disbelief. This reminded me of the documentary I watched on Damien Echols and Johnny Depp about the “Memphis Three” (it was clear in the documentary everyone in that situation was under the control of some heavy black magic).
My mother just told me the other day we aren’t talking to my grandmother anymore, now she’s taken her side…and blocked me? I basically wouldn’t leave until I had a destination. My sisters husband started getting pushy…Ok so I shouldn’t have burned the sage. I did not think that was included in her rules but, I apoligzed and explained… didn’t matter. So even though lease is paid up til Dec 20th, she’s turning in key tomorrow. $2700 down the drain (monthly rent). Now my aunt was supposed to move in too but they are saying they are done. My aun’t just filed bankruptcy and is my grandmothers yes man now because she has been helping her.
I have been quiet, helped with whatever is needed (was my grandmothers slave), polite to my sister. But they want to not only throw me out but wait until peak moment to do the most damage. This has happened with my mom repeatedly my whole life, grandmother, and now my sister did it.
I don’t know what to think. Did the ritual go backwards? IS this supposed to happen? Eventually my mother agreed to pay for 2 nights (but just one day) in a hotel no where near where they live , where I am at now. THen I am on my own…wow. I had a TON of stuff at this hotel. Haven’t done a thing wrong. Pleaded and offered to pay weekly , whatever she needed, but my sister and her husband , wanted me out.
I had done a freezer spell on my grandmother 2 nights ago but clearly that;s not working. Small bottle spell. I took it before I left.
So now I am really screwed and this is what I was afraid of. IF I got a lump sum of money I could take care of everything at once. But now I literally have NOWHERE to live. My mother has blocked me for no apparent reason other than a covert narcissist just wants to be the victim. And my life is either about to be saved by a miracle or I am totally fucked.
I said to my sister, so after day two at random hotel, then what? Her husband said “get a job” snidely. Obviously that isn’t even logical and there is no scenario short of an absolute miracle that anyone could possibly see this not ending in complete disaster. I was so close.
I kept asking my sister about the car and not getting a response. Are they really plotting to screw me on that too? Why? (rhetorical questions)
If I had $10k tomorrow or even less, enough to get what I needed and pay my mother to go get vehicle before she convinces my uncle to sell it or whatever. Tuesday at noon I am out on street right by the airport, nowhere near any of them. (My sister even commented, you want to go to St Pete, you said you wanted to move back down there…, yeah I said, AFTER I got some money saved up got a car etc. She knows this. It’s almost like a joke. The anger I have right now
I know people that are complete pieces of shit to their families, steal, lie, are lazy etc, and their family forgives them, gives them positive reinforcement, etc. I haven’t done shit. Nothing. Ok, I am done ranting. I am sorry, this is just hard to believe. To the point I almost feel like it might be magick I did causing this. It’s too evil and illogical. But that’s been the name of the game since June.
Luckily, I brought all my magick stuff to hotel with me. Obviously I knew this was my only shot. I finished small red candle with St Expedite altar already and as it burned out replaced that one with a gold candle and said prayer again.
Now I am about to go over to ancestor altar I created today. I have never done that before. But with my father and grandmother as part of it, it might be good for me regardless.
Any ideas on what I should do magickal wise? I don’t want to do to much. I worry that I asked both Bune and St Expedite for money (different amounts and its been a couple weeks since Bune).
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I have seen Price Seer mentioned for quick cash. Nitika has never produced anything for me as of yet. I did the magickal cashbook this summer and got nothing. I feel like the NAP maybe isn’t working because it’s a pdf? I don’t know if I should be bothering Bune again at all unless I get some money. Am I wrong?
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I have two 7 days glass candles. One it a plain white one. One is a green one for St. Jude , the cheap kind with plastic image. I have one 6" green candle, some white ones, 5-6 black ones, 2 orange, purple taper and white taper. (as far as candles go).
I know someone give me hope. I have been working so hard to get my life back (working on semantics of a small venture with my friend selling oils etc, but it’s not going to be making money soon enough. They were going to leave me in the torrential rain with all my shit. Was going to get a small job at autozone tomorrow by my sisters just to bring cash in to be able to get car etc. I am trying not to let the anger and desire for revenge take over.
I don’t have any room for error, or much of anything. They have infected every person in our family and the only one who had my back is now dead.
As far as mission critical right now, I feel I need to:
- Do my ancestor ritual, and any other suggestions you guys have that might be doable tonight.
- Take it to the next step with this freezer spell bottle (for malignant narc grandmother) so that problem / gossip and lies are stopped for good.
- What should I do with that bottle spell from freezer, short of burying it in a graveyard ? (it’s just not close enough lol)? I have more hair. Yeah , I used hair.
- Get a good nights rest
I need to have somewhere to go Tuesday. I need to get that vehicle before they tell my uncle to sell it or something, which will happen fast.
- If it were you in my shoes, what would you do ,magickally ,before anything else?
- Would me uploading my natal chart help (I have SolarFire software I use for that)?**
I have always been weird about doing that because I heard it’s dangerous to do so. Like self identifying etc.
Side note*: I have been trying to determine settings and type of charts, transits, alignments, etc (not the obvious ones that people tell you about) to use with SolarFire. I have some info to go on already and it’s lead me to Fixed Stars, I’ll leave it at that, but I have about 10,000 different combinations of options and settings and charts for that. When I have money I plan on purchasing Christopher Warnocks course. But just PM me and we can exchange some info.
If anyone has similar experience with these kind of parents/ family members I am all ears.
After this is said and done and I am at least in a temporarily stable housing situation, I am going to focus on working on myself. I have a lot of skill, and I am really good at what I do (business,digital marketing, marketing research, web design and dev). But This past year has brought to my attention the severity to which I need to work on fixing defense mechanisms, poor communication skills, impulsive behavior, addictive behavior, etc. Once I am away from them for a year, even a couple months, my anxiety will go wayyy down.
Bitcoin Armory
I had $200 worth of bitcoins back in April and used bitcoin Armory to send from one computer to another. I never received the bitcoins , the transaction disappeared compeltely. I have tried to recover for past 2 months to no avail. I have been dealing with bitrcoin since 2010. $200 (if it’s worth that now) is food, web hosting, and a hotel at the least.