My first encounter with him may interest you, insofar as I doubt he would be offended (as we understand it) by this kind of thing:
If you were drafting a movie script with someone in your situation (which I say to put your mind in creative mode, rather than being mired in your own emotions, and feelings of limitation) - what would that character feel comfortable with? 
Maybe creating a Talisman of Venus, to attract and give out those energies for love? Or some kind of spell?
Have a think what kind of magick may sit well with you.
I think cut and clear, and move on, would serve you best, but that’s something I gather you may not be looking for, so I only mention it to add my voice that this is how it looks to some outsiders.
If you want to persist, have a think what you DO want to try, and I’m sure someone on here will be able to give you tips. 
Finally, I don’t know where I stand with Twin Flames, but you may find this useful to externalise an archetypal perfected male, who will be worthy of your time and attention (albeit, probably not in a directly sexual manner):