Don’t forget we have the collection thread for the best ones here:
Please do feel free to add to this collection, which is in the Pinned Notables thread if you know of a great topis that should be listed. 
I’m currently testing the Grimorium Verum’s famous lust spell, if it works out I will vouch for it and add it to the collection as well.
BALG is literally a gold mine of 9 years and counting of practical experience and workings, but as it’s a mine, you have to dig a bit for the richest veins. New stuff is good too, but it’s worth doing the digging for the oldies but goodies, especially if you don’t want to wait. These collection megathreads are meant to help with that.
Update: That worked a treat. My version was on a man, with the intent that he contact me and be real in his communication. So you can adapt no matter who you are this to work on anyone for any purpose, I believe, not just because they’re your crush. Added to the collection.