So, I looked at it ā¦ went away for a bit and came back and tried to feel which resonates with me. It was 3 drawing my attention, even though I tried looking on the other piles. Somewhat 2 was asking for attention too, but 3 was screaming at me. 4 was like ānononoā.
I checked the descriptions and they reflected absolutely these feelings about them I had before. 3 was spot on for me, 2 was important, but the description of pile 4 was like āabsolutely not for me at this momentā.
It seems to me like your saying you never said anything from the things I understood and itās my fault I thought you said I was using tricks because I am doubting myself and I have trouble to understand other people and I willfully act as if I would misunderstand you.
But probably I am missing the point againā¦
You couldāve tried to explain it then except of assuming again about what kind of mindset I have.
But anyways I donāt want this thread filled with so much negativity.
This right here. I said thereās a trick to it not that you were using tricks. And I complimented the whole thing. That you took my compliment as anything other than such is the source of this entire debacle.
But if I didnāt do it intentionally I would project my own feelings into others in an unhealthy way and that would be a reason for me to stop doing readings was what I was saying. So itās not a compliment at all for me.
The microcosm reflects the macrocosm reflects the microcosm. What readings do is interpret your own situation in a way that matches otherās situations in the macrocosm. To know yourself is to know the world.
Thatās actually truely interesting. Because, first, Iām not a fan of readings on my own. And second, I often donāt know what to think of itā¦
Here is what makes it more interesting. Two things seem similar in the descriptions of 2 and 4, specifically the part about the soulmate. So, how can be 2 be important but 4 not? Well, immediately the feeling came up that I may be looking for such, (subconciously mostly probably, but I can see why), but, that this is me, and not my soul which doesnāt seem to ask for calling one in, at this time at least. On second check, thatās actually how 2 and 4 really differ on what they are saying regarding soulmates.
Itās one thing to say that own views, feelings and values have an influence on readings because every reader brings in a personal note and thatās inevitable.
But itās another thing to say that every reading is the same and just an expression of the things the reader would want to hear in a specific moment.
I think thatās true.
As I said, I didnāt do a really deep reading this time. My last pick a card reading gave more insight probably. This time I just wanted to get some advice, wishes etc that could be helpful.
All of them have different key aspects in my opinion.
Pile 1 has a heavy feeling, worries and impatience - so the advice is to let go a little and celebrate the good things in life to get a better mood. They seem to be very stern, having patience can be tiring sometimes, so the soul wants more positive feelings and ease.
Pile 2 is about attracting someone into their life. It might be a search for love but the advice, to really know what you want before trying to attract it. Itās also about self-worth and the need of healthy relationships. There might even have been unhealthy ones in the past which could have had an influence on their self-worth.
Pile 3 wants a lot and has high hopes - but also doubts and anxieties. While looking into the future, it shouldnāt forget about the things that are already there and worth celebrating or being happy about it - to get strength from these. Itās easy to forget about the small things in life sometimes.
Pile 4 seems to be very tired and needs some time alone to regain energy.
There are also other energies that have an influence on them so it would be important to work things out or let them go. The soul is looking for a soulmate but Pile 4 seems to be more concentrated on other things at the moment, for example practicing magick.
I agree with these explanations, however, I think there is one more to pile 3, which seemed to reflect at least in my case also to what it was telling meā¦ the main message it related additionally to me was, that Iām on the right track doing things and be more confident in that regard.
It seems to me like your saying you never said anything from the things I understood and itās my fault I thought you said I was using tricks because I am doubting myself and I have trouble to understand other people and I willfully act as if I would misunderstand you.
