You might like to check out the topics of other on here who also have this issue. A lot of people use a lot of different spirits and they all work out. Paimon can remove weaknesses.
https://forum.becomealivinggod.com/search?expanded=true&q=social%20anxiety
For myself, I’m not anxious but I can seriously procrastinate, and Amducias was helpful for getting motivated and moving. He can make others compliant, so I guess he can make you compliant to your own wants as well.