Should i postpone the attraction spell for next month and do the mental peace spell that you mentioned? I was just preparing myself to do the damon brand.
But i respect your opinion so i would go with what you suggested first for mental peace and then go for the attraction spell in 3-4 weeks
Unlike before im not desperate, i came from a point of neediness and it went no where so im now more disciplined. The space i had after she left help me understand myself better.
Iāve given you my advice, I have nothing more to say. 
But we really need you to complete your intro. Iām going to close this temporarily to give you undistracted time to do that 
Thank you for responding in your intro. Post reopened.
Again, Iām with @Mulberry.
Thereās more than enough quality advice in this thread for you to implement and work with.
Thank youuu
And thank you so much for all your quality advices.
Im going to do the petition and then do the attraction spell.
It has exactly been 1 week since she insisted me to leave her alone so its really practical to think that an attraction spell will drive her away.
So the best thing is to do a petition spell for mental peace as @Mulberry suggested and then go for the attraction spell after a month.
Until then im working on myself to be a better person internally and externally
Have a great day guys!!
If anyone else have suggestions please let me knowš
Also @Mulberry @iAMmagick @DarkestKnight im not a catholic and i was born to a buddhist family
It doesnt affect the power of my spells right?
Nope, thatās not an issue. 
Also Mulberry, do you think if i prayed or do the ritual to my local godess with the same intent as for amon, paimin and berith would work? Ive already started it in a nearby savred place and two days are left to finish it
I that case I wouldnāt even bother with a different spell. You either trust that goddess or you donāt. But you started this thread only yesterday, so maybe you donāt. In which case why are you praying to her at all?
So i started that ritual just before i started this thread and paid a local shaman to do it, its basically a worship and plead but after i talked to you guys my eyes opened more than anything else. Before it was to make her attracted to me but im gonna change that motive of that local diety āto make her trust meā and finish it off in 2 days.
So all together its prayers for 4 gods (the three who you mentioned and the local one)
Ive done many local rituals but all of them was for her to be attracted to me maybe which is what drove her further further away from me as you said.
So now im just focusing on the trust part and later when things go well i can focus on the attractuon
Ah. Then this is staring to look like lust for results, which can really kill magick. Thatās counterproductive.
At this point Iād not do the Amon part, also skip another attraction spell: we didnāt know you already did āmanyā.
I donāt think talking to Berith and Paimon will conflict since the purpose is differentā¦ But after this, stop everything. Let it bake and donāt chase her any more until she comes to you, youāre quite likely to confuse the energy and screw it all up if you keep adding more into the mix. You now have multiple streams of magick all out there and who knows how they will interact. Just let it play out for a while.
Understood. Yes. I admit i had lust for results before because there wasnt anyone to guide me. I didnt know what i was doing cus the local places always tell that the results appear withun 21 days and they say its okay to do many things at once so that at-least one method will workout.
But after i found this website yesterday my eyes are now opened to know how everything works
I already wrote about aimon on the paper, and also drew the sigils of all three. Should i just discard the paper and write a new petition?
It wonāt be a problem. You can just use the Paimon and Berith sigils. The ask for Berith is a working on you, itās definitely the least conflicting. That ask should work on everyone by the way, so it may improve your whole life a little and make everyone in general kinder to you