I wanted to rant so here’s my rant… which no doubt at some point someone may direct me back to read for myself
Manifesting an ex back
No it’s not hard, no it usually doesn’t occur overnight, and no you don’t need them
Step 1: go no contact. Don’t need to block them or explain anything just simply stop 
stop stalking your ex on social media! It does you no good to pull your vibes down obsessing over what they’re up to and harassing them is not going to make them realise they can’t live without you… it’s going to scare the fuck out of them. No more texts, calls, checking… JUST STOP 
On average it takes someone around 30 days to forget the anger they feel and start to miss you.
If you can’t do this… do you really want your ex ? I mean you’ll do anything to get them back… really? If so, going no contact is EASY
Step 2: realise you are addicted to your ex. You are obsessed and addicted and this kind of wanting is a horrible energy for someone to feel. It’s not attractive. Realise withdrawal is needed… you’ve lost yourself… again, don’t text this to your ex… right now they really don’t care! No excuses, no contact!
Step 3: it is exhausting to be responsible for anyone else’s happiness, your ex is not going to be happy being responsible for yours… they don’t want to be drained… even if you get them back, they will leave and you’ll go through this shit again if you don’t start taking care of YOURSELF. You need to do things that make you feel good… that lift your vibes and if you’re so codependent on your ex you are clinically depressed… you need to do all that stuff you roll your eyes at and think is bs… yes, you do need to do self love meditation, eat, excercise,
Here’s the thing: you need to detatch FULLY. You need to swing the power balance. You are no longer chasing them. Even with magick… you become the prize they seek. They are not your golden ticket to happiness. You are theirs.
Step 4: use whatever method of magick you want… because YOU are the magick. So pick one you actually believe in! Pick one you are confident has worked.
Step 5: go about life, you’re not going about it if you put life on hold. It’s fine to be single, it’s fine to date others, it’s fine to forget about them altogether
Step 6: Notice they’ve come back… but do you want them? It’s up to you.
You see they aren’t seperate from you, that’s just an illusion. They are a mirror of exactly what you expect … which is why learning to love yourself and respect yourself as corny and bullshit as it sounds is a MUST.
If you need to msg and ask if it’s possible to get them back… here’s the answer… yes. This has never failed me and I’ve definitely done it on several targets and from such hopeless situations as blocked on everything
So why innerGoddess are you then not in a happy relationship with one of your exes? Because none of my exes have made me happy. Only I can do that.
Manifesting someone back… is easy. Wanting them when they come back is harder. Breaking addictions to toxic relationship patterns is harder.
End of rant. It’s easy to do!
Oh and how long will it take? As long as it takes you… does it matter? You truly want your ex back… you’ll have them back 