Honestly mate, you sound like either an incel…or at the very least, a blackpiller that watches way too much blackpill/incel content. It’s one or the other.
Here’s my guess as to what’s going on here…just based on my interactions with other blackpillers. First, folks in this community are really good at front-running you with answers to deflect questions that they know are coming. I don’t get the sense from your posting history that you are that experienced with magick…so quite frankly I don’t believe you’ve had “a lot” of success with spirits but love magick just so happens to be the one area where none of it works. Blackpillers have this way of acting like they are so ugly that nothing in heaven or earth will be able to get them laid, due to a few millimeters of bone in their face…and they take advantage of the fact that they are anonymous on the internet to basically give all the right answers to questions since they cannot be independently verified. My guess is, perhaps you may have had some successes here and there, but you’ve had some failures outside of love magick as well. I’ve been following this community for a while, and the funny thing I noticed is the shift from the general complaints about women not selecting them, to the hyper-fixation on the face. This shift came about because blackpillers started getting annoyed that people were giving them practical advice that could actually work, so there was a gradual shift towards focusing on the face, because you can’t give advice on how to fix a bad face outside of surgery…and that’s the space blackpillers like to occupy…maximal doomerism and hopelessness…but i digress.
I’m also going to take a stab in the dark and guess that @QueenMustang read you right when she said you’re using too many spirits, and your response to her confirms it for me. There isn’t an inherent problem with using multiple spirits on a particular goal. The issue is that typically when its done by inexperienced practitioners, its done because they have such little faith in magick and their ability to perform it, they logic to themselves that in order to increase the likelihood of success, I’ll just summon half the astral realm to my particular task. This usually comes from a lack of faith in any one spirit to be able to do the job…which is what you admitted:
So here’s my advice. Take all of the incel/blackpill content that you are consuming and delete it/unsubscribe from it. Yes that includes FaceandLMS, w/e the new incel.io website is, Wheat Waffles, Incel TV, Tails, or whoever the new kid on the block is these days (I can barely keep track) You may not know this, but the success/failure of magick highly depends on your mentality towards magick and the situation itself. If you go into it mentally thinking that “its over” as blackpillers like to say, then you will fail the operation before it even begins. There is nothing uniquely ugly about you that no spirit in the astral realm can get you a girlfriend. This is some tough love but you need to get over yourself a bit and stop thinking that you are so uniquely special in terms of your perceived ugliness. Lets take the user @Werb421 for example. The dude is middle aged, but is still banging 19 year olds with the help of spirits like Asmodeus. Any blackpiller reading his stats would say its over, and that no 19 y/o in her prime would give him the time of day. Asmoday begs to differ apparently. Even if you don’t believe “its over” for you… I sense that your blackpill-like beliefs supersedes your belief in magick, so even though you clearly believe in both, one will always override the other, and that’s a problem. Success in love magick will come to you once you get to a point mentally, that your belief in magick supersedes your blackpill beliefs…but you aren’t there yet mentally. You need to work on that. My BALG Repository of Success Stories might be a good place to start to help you gain confidence in magicks ability to fix any persons situation no matter how dire.
Second bit of advice is to tone down on your use of every spirit in the astral realm related to love magick. Pick one spirit and actually develop a relationship with that one spirit…whether it be Asmodeus, or Sargatanas, or any other spirit in this field that resonates with you. The mentality of, “Okay since my problem is super special, I’ll need five spirits to do the job of one to overcome it” is logic that doesn’t work in magick when it comes from a place of doubt. Build an altar to the spirit if you must in order to solidify your connection. Do as much research on the spirit that you can, starting with the experiences from people here on the forum. Once you gain that faith and confidence in the spirit, then start asking it for specific things to improve your love life.
Now, I’ll just take you at your word that you are a socially active person, even though nine times out of ten, folks who think as you do (ie. blackpillers), are extremely reclusive and live on the internet…but I’ll just add that sometimes changing your location (what blackpillers call geomaxxing) helps immensely. There is a certain truth about the difficulty of dating for men in countries like the USA/Canada/UK. If you date in these countries as a male, its like picking up a new video game and playing it on hard mode for the first play through. Its a silly way to go about it, unless you just like the challenge. Travelling elsewhere, even if its for a few days, can help to lower the difficulty mode of this game, and give you that confidence needed to start playing the dating game on harder difficulty levels. Fundamentally, women are the same everywhere, but cultural/economic differences between countries provides idiosyncrasies within the dating culture that can be exploited, especially by westerners. I will sometimes come across these incel/blackpill types who complain about how hard dating is, just to find out that they live in a city like Los Angeles. So not only does this person live in one of the hardest countries to date in as a guy…they live in one of the hardest cities in the hardest country’s to date in as a guy. Its a bit asinine. Travel. See whats out there. If you marry this practical advice with the magickal advice I’ve given you, your dating life will be better than 99% of men on this planet.