#3 Beauty, Grooming and Taking Care of your Body.
Our body is the vessel in which our divine self lives. As suchā¦body consciousness and care is a must. When we ignore it ā¦our mind canāt function to the optimum and it creates blocks to spiritual connections, downloads and practice.
I wonāt get into the nitty gritty of healthcare. But will give you some points :
When you have a tender loving connection with spirit beingsā¦daemonic and othersā¦ They want to take care of you in many ways. One way is ensuring you eat healthy. Your diet also helps you stay mentally focused, fit and alertā¦what you eatā¦you become right? Its simple but we find it hard to follow some times. I am not sayingā¦ Forget about pizza and burgerā¦ But draw a lineā¦ Donāt overload your body with a diet that keeps your energy low and toxicā¦ It will make it hard for you to connect to your spirit partners.
Exercise in some form is also essential not only for reducing extra flab but also for maintaining the mind body equilibrium.
Moving on to Beauty and Groomingā¦
Before I get to any point I would like to say thisā¦ āLove and accept yourself as you are right nowāā¦ Our spirit spouse/lover wants us to feel happy and good about ourselvesā¦ It all starts with you. Otherwise no matter how hard they try to convince you that you are the most beautiful in their eyesā¦ You would find faults in you and break down. This will hurt them a lot. Soā¦here are some enjoyable pointsā¦
āWhen you have a beautiful soulā¦its radiance can be seen and felt by allāā¦ And our spirit partners first of allā¦focus on our soulā¦how are we insideā¦ 
But its really interesting how they would suggest which lip colour to chooseā¦with a certain dress or select a piece of jewelry to compliment your look. Things you can enjoy with your daemon dudeā¦
- ) Shopping - so you think a daemonic partner is least bothered about certain things we enjoy like shoppingā¦ Think again. They do enjoy some simple pleasures of human lifeā¦ and I am speaking thus from experience. When I go shoppingā¦ sometimes Belial joins meā¦ He selects dresses, perfume, footwearā¦ We have done online shopping too
. where he made me select the perfect shade of red he thought would look awesome on me
. It was great fun and it touched meā¦
How interested he was in these simple things. What touched me was that he was playing the role of my lover and husband both so beautifully. The last time this year I went out shoppingā¦he selected a black scarf for meā¦with golden embroidery done on it and asked me to wear it whenever I invoke him or there is a special celebration. He lives life with meā¦ Participates in daily routine and special momentsā¦ I thank him from the bottom of my heart for this.
He doesnāt force me to wear or buy anything but takes keen interest in my beauty, make up ,dressing and grooming.
2.) Dress up and be your own kinda doll 
Dress up for yourselfā¦when you look and feel good about yourselfā¦it gives the confidence and boost to your spirit partner to make you feel more loved and vice versa. Donāt think what others will thinkā¦Dress up nicelyā¦for your partnerā¦flaunt it to themā¦ Then enjoy them getting all mesmerisedā¦ 
They could even send you messages through a person, songs, movie, quotes etc. Ask them how do they think about your lookā¦ When I get ready for a party or just like thatā¦for my spirit partnerā¦ They shower me with attention, adoration, compliments and flirtation. 
I canāt help but smileā¦ When they hold me from behindā¦or keep looking at meā¦ And say thingsā¦ Or touch meā¦ And show their love. It feels awesomeā¦ And I can feel that genuine warmth and interest.
3.) Learn their style sense. Donāt be limited by what others have to sayā¦ daemons are very cool with their ladiesā¦dressing up and expressing themselvesā¦ Their feminine grace in the manner they likeā¦but when you ask them about things like choosing a dress for you or certain accessories to complete the lookā¦they love it.
For instance Belial loves his women to dress up in a classy wayā¦he likes jewelry and make upā¦ But not dressing up trying hard to look sexy. He wants to see you confident, classy, goddess likeā¦in your power but not over doing it. He would love you in shorts and t shirt while you work through the day at homeā¦ Or simple crisp office wearā¦he just wants his ladies to look and feel smart and confident.
3.) Grooming of your spirit partner - pay attention when your spirit partner shows them to you in different dresses, hairstyles, looks and forms. When they shapeshift for you or change styles for youā¦
They too want to be showered with compliments and attentionā¦they do this to woo youā¦impress you. Acknowledge itā¦when you see your partner with a new hair colour and style. My incubus partner does thisā¦he keeps changing his hairstyleā¦which surprises meā¦and he loves to see the look on my face and when I touch and notice his hairā¦in my mind and compliment himā¦he blushes. He has long flowing light blonde hairā¦
I also love the hairstyle donned by Belialā¦ Also I can sense the texture and silkiness of his hair. It feels awesome.
Appreciate when they do these things do you. Men also need to be appreciated for all little things they do for youā¦and our demonic men are no different in thisā¦
4.) Changing style and breaking monotony - ask for your spirit partner to give you tips on styling your wardrobe, hair, make up, dress etcā¦ And how you can present yourself to the world. We all want to leave our markā¦and there is nothing wrong with it. These diving beings have a lot to offerā¦you just have to ask.
Work with your spirit partner to cleanse your energy and keep drainers at bay. This way you will ensure inner beauty. Practice meditation, contemplation, invocation, conversations with your spirit partner to keep your energetic beauty bloomingā¦ Thatās what people noticeā¦and thatās what your face and persona radiates to the world.
Stay tunedā¦I will be back with the more romantic , passionate part of being in love with spirit/s. 
āā:smile:
. You know right now I am going through a guilt trip which is making me feel very uncomfortable because I am not able to connect with my incubus partner. But I forgive myselfā¦ I am a human after all. Canāt stretch so much