My roomate/ boyfriend’s best friend is an inconsiderate and spoiled jerk. (Example. His family moves place to place but he was given every form of technology, mountains of food and sweets, and any clothes. He was given a truck. He was even offered by his mom to live in their newest house, which is has an apartment-like lower portion with everything youd ever need included. Paid in full by his parents. As long as he went to college, which would also be paid by them. And he scoffed and threw it back in their faces that he didnt want to live with them. But he calls me privelaged. Purely because i lived in a large nice house. But my parents were dead broke 99% of the time. I had to babysit my older brothers. I barely had technology. And everything i own was of my own hard work. And my dad was a drunk and mom a general abuser.)
So today he was blatantly lying about his back hurting so he could be lazy. Well I got stuck on the floor i’m sick with a respitory infection and found myself too weak to stand after i sat on the floor for a moment. My boyfriend is also sick so he asked him to help me. He threw a tantrum. Boyfriend was going to let him off the hook. After 10 minutes of me sitting there (i decided to forceably sigh in annoyance) roomate mocked me. When my boyfriend asked me why i was still on the floor i explained that I literally could not get up (i was sore, my muscles were tired, and my hands have been swollen and tender all day because i am apparently allergic to Amoxicillin.) Boyfriend, very annoyed, yelled at roomate to get up and help me. (Boyfriends mom has a lot of issues that make it where she is trapped on the floor. So he takes these situations very seriously.) Roomate sighed. Got up in a pissy mood. As he picked me up I thanked him but then he shoved me and walked off threatening “Yeah, you’ll see when I dont get up for work in the morning.”
Enough is enough. He needs a christmas carol moment. I want to give him vivid nightmares about his terrible self to try and change him. Is it possible?