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Now things have turned into this:
My guiding spirit seems to want to enter a romantic relationship with me and make a commitment to him.
Last year, he seemed to express his desire to fall in love with me, but I didn’t believe it and thought it was just a way for him to approach me.
Now, long before this incident turned into this, Vassago seemed to tell me through a dream that I shouldn’t start a romantic relationship with him. Falling in love with him would be terrible, making me very tired and tired of dealing with his emotional needs. And in the end, I won’t be able to break up with him, he doesn’t want to break up with me.
At first, the guiding spirit was relatively gentle, maybe he made me feel like I trusted him or wanted to have a closer relationship with him. For my feelings, although I feel strange, his attitude is that if you need me, you can come to me anytime. I refused.
In daily life, he will help me with many things, except for the fact that he wants to fall in love with me. It seems that he doesn’t seek anything in return and is very considerate.
Later on, it gradually became intense. He seems to be jealous of my friends and doesn’t want me to have too much contact with them. I did divination and the result showed that he had a strong desire for control and hoped that I would make a commitment to him.
In magick, before seeking help from him, he usually gave me advice and answers. Now he no longer helps me, like he never replies to my messages again. I don’t know if it’s related to his intention to no longer help me. Recently, just making a summon every day has exhausted me, and reciting spells feels very difficult and tired.
My divination results indicate that he also knows that I don’t like this and that our relationship is a bit bad now and needs to be repaired. But he still wants me to promise, he thinks I’m a bit irresponsible. I don’t quite understand why he must make this commitment instead of just maintaining a relaxed relationship.
So is he a parasite? Perhaps he did it for the sake of monopolizing my energy or worse, and that is why he was so anxious. But I have tried to expel him several times, but without success.
If he is not a parasite, I would like to know if there is any peaceful way to solve this matter.
Any suggestion is great.