I want to undertake a major magical work

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Hello everyone,

Apologies if my post is not in the right category, I wasn’t sure where to place it.

When I say I want to undertake a major magical work, I mean acting on multiple aspects, which should include many rituals. I’m going to need your guidance.

I can already tell you that I have an ex I’m trying to win back. We recently separated, and here are two topics discussing it:

I haven’t performed any rituals targeting her yet, except for one with Paimon using LHD, which is explained in the second topic.

Aside from that, I’m an artist and plan to release my first project at the end of this summer. I’m 22, still living with my mother, and currently unemployed, so money is an issue. I’m actively looking for a job, though, and I was considering Cloneck, as I’ve never done any money-related rituals before.

I was also thinking about doing rituals for success and prosperity in my first project, for inspiration, and everything related to it.

I will need to perform quite a few rituals to achieve my final goal: winning back the woman I love and releasing my music project.

I know you might think I’m foolish and that I should just let go of this woman and focus entirely on my artistic project. You would probably be right, but the love and regret I feel for her prevent me from doing so.

I’m willing to dedicate time and attention to your responses, and I will also update this thread regularly to keep you informed about the progress of the rituals.

Looking forward to your replies!

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Looks like you already have a plan.
Break it down in smaller goals. First do magick to get a job. Once you are successful in getting a stable and satisfying job, do magick for inspiration, drive and whatever you need to bring the artistic project to completion. Then do popularity, reputation, fame magick etc.

As for rekindling your previous relationship. You need to understand that it may never work out again, depending on what you did. But if you still want to try: make yourself shine brightly, be trustworthy, be honest. Then gently try to reconnect and be respectful.

I don’t recommend doing any love magick on your ex, as most love rituals are curses in disguise and can lead to aggression and even hate towards you. Most love spells are in reality obsession spells: their real feelings don’t match with their imposed thoughts and it may cause violent reactions. From a moral standpoint: I wouldn’t do this to someone I love. But it’s your call in the end.

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Thank you for your answer.

Indeed, I’m not going to do love spells (or at least redo them, because there have already been some) on my ex. The love is there, it’s just tarnished, the trust is destroyed, it’s his brain and intellect that decided to leave me.
@Mulberry recommended a ritual for emotional healing, by Jareth Tampests, but in the book it’s an emotional healing spell linked to sexuality, and sexuality has never been a worry between her and me, on the contrary, it’s been more of a cement.

Apart from that, it’s been lies linked to a lack of self-confidence, there’s been no deception or anything, so it’s forgivable I think, but it takes time and proof.

Do you have any rituals to recommend for inspiration? I’m a Pisces ascendant, with my Venus in the ascendant in the 12th house, as well as many other aspects linked to the artistic, so discipline is more of a problem than inspiration per se, but it’s always interesting to add to it!

For my ex, I was thinking more of a spell to bind her, so that she couldn’t find love except for me. It may not be moral or ethical for some people, but it’s my choice. Do you know any goetic demons capable of this?

I was also thinking of doing a total purification ritual, to cleanse myself of any energy linked to my old rituals that could possibly parasitize me, but having never done one, I have no knowledge of it. There are a lot of topics on this forum related to this, but I like to discuss them concisely now, so if you also have some to advise me, I’d love to hear from you!

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I think you missed my point: It does emotional healing, period. I’m the one who told you that attractions isn’t the issue - you have to remove those things which caused her to not see you as a viable partner.

The point is that being emotionally stable and under control helps every aspect of your life and particularly all relationship. You said one of your issues was weakness in making fights and lying to her - if you had better emotional control you would have the self discipline to handle all that better in a way that didn’t escalate into fights and you would feel stronger so that you wouldn’t need to lie.

If you are strong, then you can be strong for her and be seen as a worthwhile partner, not just an “angry liar”. 90% of relationships is about communication after all.

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I’ve read the ritual, and it’s true that it says it’s for sexual traumas, but if you tell me that the sigil can indeed heal even traumas linked to a failed relationship experience through my fault, then I’d do it, thanks for your advice.

My only fear is that her “healing” will lead her to forget me more easily and that she’ll turn to another partner who seems simpler, not necessarily more attractive, but simpler.

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Yes that servitor can heal all emotional issues.

Well if you think her wanting you is a disease I guess it would, is it though?

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Okay, thanks!

No, I don’t see my presence in his life or even his love for me as a “disease”. It’s just that as things stand, I can’t love her the way I’d like to. I’d like a guarantee so that I can improve, in every way, and be able to find her later to prove my evolution.

I know that magic can do it, especially if there’s still love. Even if I have to go through a bond, which looks like a bad spell, it’ll be for a good cause. I’m not being selfish or mean. To be honest, if I knew that we were bad for each other and that I had nothing to offer her, I wouldn’t be doing this.

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Ok, but can you love her in the way SHE’d like you to? If so that may be enough.

Yeah, you re. The binding you wanted was to prevent her from having love and enjoyment with another. It’s selfish and it’s ok to own that that’s how you feel. Don’t lie to yourself, your magic can go awry from the confused intentions if you are not totally honest with yourself about what they are.

Yes but you’re not the one who has to be convinced. This is less about you than her, and you need to start putting her first, so she can SEE that, and regain trust. So far you’re only really talking about yourself and what you want, and you need to put yourself in her shoes and meet her needs for her to want to get back together.

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I would recommend the Olympic spirit Och for all kinds of inspiration.

For discipline I would recommend archangel Gabriel. Or any ritual that can stop procrastination.

There is a goetic demon capable of doing bindings but I always associated it with bindings in the sense of stopping someone from doing harm. I can’t remember the name right now though

Stele of Jeu from the PGM can be used as an exorcism, banishing and purification ritual. You can do it for as long as you feel necessary

Basically what @Mulberry said above… the only “good” cause for using a binding is for stopping someone from doing harm, imo

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