How to treat a woman: a lesson for millenial men, a visual guide

This is where Facebook and Pornhub need to start sharing data for a comprehensive study of sexual preference. :laughing:

But seriously though, does anyone else think that the estrogenization of men and declining testosterone levels via BPAs and other sources is causing a trend towards men being more submissive in general?

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Iā€™ll add something though. Dominance on itā€™s own will only take you so far.
You also need to be emotional and add variety and immersion. Check the sex god method ebook.

I say this because puas and red pillers always mention dominance but neglect the others.
Doing so will make you a fling and your partner unable to see long term potential in you.
All for elements together and youā€™ll be more addictive than heroin

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Absolutely. Relationships are built on emotional connection.

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System thought my Gif was too big.

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If however youā€™re only interested in attracting and sleeping with a bunch of different women and never settle down (thatā€™s the consensus of the manosphere) then by all means carry on.

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Literally the one thing the majority of ā€œr/seductionā€ and ā€œr/redpillā€ donā€™t get. Pumping and dumping because you have some little man complex and are out to make women ā€œfeel your painā€ because you been fucked over by some in your life isnā€™t the way to go. Be a real man in the streets, and a beast in the sheets. The whole ā€˜Iā€™m an alphaā€ gimmick is just fucking corny. Shit a real ā€œalphaā€ never has to bring any of that up, he already knows who he is and needs no approval from others.

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Tl;dr yes, but itā€™s not submissive, itā€™s more psychotic - you pump a guy full of stuff his brain did not develop to handle (male brains in utero have enormous amounts of testosterone, in a normal healthy fetus anyway, the female does not) and it wonā€™t just quietly turn him girly, it will drive him crazy.

Iā€™m going to piss everyone off by stating, I donā€™t walk around feeling my gender, women I know who are straight, cis, whatever, especially aged say 30 and up, we donā€™t wake up and obsess about it, we may have many interests and talents outside the statistical norm for females.

But when statistically examined, these tend to even out - we will have more in common statistically with conventional femininity than not, whilst neither being Stepford fembots, nor special snowflakes in need our of our distinct identity as mayo-gendered.

The almost-parodic nature of some trans peopleā€™s expectations of the gender they ā€œtransitionā€ to (pretty smooth word for some brutal surgeries and hormonal treatments many go through) do not reflect the norms, or the ā€œlived experienceā€ of the gender they aspire to fully align with, in many cases, and I think this is why so many feel disappointed and depressed, especially as they grow older and the mopre overtly sexual identity becomes inappropriate and perhaps a struggle to sustain.

Wanting a thing and making enormous sacrifices for it, only to discover it was an illusion and wonā€™t last, will do that to anyone.

It seems weird to me that the flattening in distinctions between male and female amongst cis gender people correlates to the rise in embracing extreme caricatures of gender roles among some trans people (nb4 not all, YES I get that, see above) - itā€™s like the less feminine women are pressured to become, act, and appear, the more some men idealise that role and seek to fulfil it.

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If they were only acting in that way because they were pressured to do so then ā€¦:person_shrugging:

Iā€™m in total agreement with the issue of people acting like a characature of a woman or a man. One of the reasons I donā€™t like drag shows :roll_eyes:

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Other species change gender in nature through easier processes. Some humans want to go through this process no matter what because it is who they are. It is their nature.There can be something quite tragic about it, as is being written, because these people can never achieve the ideal of what they want to be. To fully accept yourself as you are can be the most difficult task of them all. I once had a girlfriend, who is trans and just the idea of what she went through to become who she feels deep inside is mindblowing to someone who is not trans.

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I have a couple of trans friends. One FTM the other MTF. Both vetrans that got their transition via the VA . They earned it in my book if thatā€™s what they want. Rather them do that then suicide.

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Trans people are as far as I know the minority group in the world that is most often victims of violence.

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So tell us what you want ā€¦ Iā€™m :ear:

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Theyā€™ve been around for a long time. Not a modern or isolated phenomenon.

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Yes. It is just nature. The problem is always the surrounding society if there is a problem.

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Well my Daddy Dom /babygirl relationship was honestly an aspect of BDSM that I really never thought I was. But Daddy @DarkestKnight really found that place in me and pulled it out , itā€™s probably one of the happiest relationships Iā€™ve ever had

I might be fierce ā€¦but I still want my Daddy :blush::sparkling_heart:

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If thatā€™s what makes you happy. A healthy relationship between consenting adults is just that.

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It just really works for meā€¦I get the spankings and the whips and cuffs that I loveā€¦
But also get tucked in and monster checks under the bedā€¦ and tiarras and cupcakesā€¦ and lollipops :lollipop::crown:

Itā€™s like the best of every thing. :slight_smile::sparkling_heart::rose:

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Preach!

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Funny ā€¦ Almost every ā€œDomā€ bdsm guy Iā€™ve known in real life were physically and verbally abusive dickholes.

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