How to treat a woman: a lesson for millenial men, a visual guide

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Here you go @J.A.Ragnarson

8 Sexual Preferences Men Usually Keep Under Their Hats

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I am just a hermit.

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Got a link? I can see that being true for women but it’s surprising that men wouldn’t prefer being dominant.

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One sec. Lemme find one.

Also this: @J.A.Ragnarson

https://www.alternet.org/sex-amp-relationships/why-trans-porn-hugely-popular-among-hetero-men

Plenty of thought going into what men like :rofl:

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I have known men who were basically just a gender role all the time. I guess they were too scared to be human.

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DAMNIT! I read several studies showing this and now I can’t find them :triumph::triumph::triumph::triumph:

Sorry Sublimis.

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It’s not what I was looking for but here’s this @Nyxifer

Dominant or Submissive? Paradox of Power in Sexual Relations | Psychology Today

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Fake news! Jk. I know a sex worker who’s told me that the CEOs and men with power tend to be the ones who are the most submissive during sex, probably because they hold control most of their lives and so it’s a refreshing change to give it up for a moment. On the other hand, I can see the majority of men who don’t tend to hold that much power in daily life exercising control in bed to make up for this. :thinking:

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Probably. I’m still mad that I can’t find those studies. Oh well. They might be outdated now anyway.

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Trans people are often very archetypally the “gender role” they “transition” to, so what does that make them?

Why go through the hormones and surgery if everyone should just “be human” and be what they are?

if a trans person can feel and know they’re very feminine, or very masculine, why can’t a cis person?

So, why do many women who exercise very little power and have shitty dead-end part-time jobs frig themselves crazy to 50 Shades Of Gray? :thinking:

I’m just stunned at the dismissive generalisations it’s still okay to make, namely against cis men, that would never be acceptable elsewhere! :rofl:

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They can, of course. There is nothing wrong with anything IF it is not a role. Playing a role was my whole point. You can sense when someone is playing against what and who they are.

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Good luck defining anyone’s gneder identity for them in 2018, telling them you sense they’re fake, and expectting that to fly… unless you’re doing it to a cis male. :man_shrugging:

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I have no intention to do so. I am talking about experiences with a few people I was surrounded with all my life. That is a very different matter. Everyone plays a role once in a while. Everyone has a persona once in a while. I am not referring to that.

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Fucking THANK YOU @Lady_Eva I get sick of the “trendsgenders” telling me that since I fit their deffinition of androgynous that I should identify as such when I very clearly feel like a woman and have a strong sense of myself as a feminine being.

I think it’s ironic that they try to make me identify with their box regardless of how I feel myself when they are pushing for their own ability to identify as how they feel.

I’m a feminine being. End of story.

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Well said. I too come off as more androgynous in behavior, but I feel feminine and enjoy being a woman.

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A woman is just a body possessed by a spirit. A man is just a possessed body with a dingaling. The spirit is sexless. We just play our gender roles mostly due to bio chemistry.

So how do you treat a woman? You treat her ( or whoever 's) spirit with respect and hopefully you get to ravage her body and she ravages yours.

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I mean, clearly every individual is unique and no generalization will be accurate for every individual. But that being said, we can still certainly point out trends in the population at large.

This study seems to back up that men seem to prefer submissive partners and women dominant ones, on average.

Power/status correlating with sexual preference on an individual level would be different across genders, I’d assume, as women and men tend to wield power differently. Just a guess though.

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We are spiritual beings having a physical experience.

That’s what I’m getting at though, saying socially low-status/powerless men must want to be dominant in compensation doesn’t explain phenomena like this:

I can all but guarantee you those sales weren’t all to female CEOs.

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repesct

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