If you want a succubus a popular route is to petition Lilith. The member succupedia here has a lot in his post history on the subject and if I recall he is married to his ladies.
Reasons for choosing a suubus (or incubus, the male version)
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Any known name can get into this, but yeah grimoires aren’t good as “dating apps”: it’s ideal, like with humans to get to know someone first, and keep doing your magick and something often turns up. Your energy is already set that you’re open to it so it will probably come along sooner rather than later.
What often happens is that your connection with an entity gets usurped by an impostor, and that impostor, while it is probably just a parasite and should be banished, might also be an interested party. That happened to me, which is why I say it.
