Hey I’m above average looking (like 6-7/10) and I struggle to date too. I’ve been having problems with dating since 2017 when I was 15. Then I looked into astrology and realized I had brutal transits in my 5th & 7th Houses (relationship houses). You could be having bad transits atm and if you are, it isn’t advised to get into a relationship.
You could be meeting men who are not meant for you or energetically incompatible with you. Everyone has their own energy field and some peoples’ energy fields don’t rly resonate with others. So ask yourself if you genuinely like these men
If not looks, you probably don’t have a high reputation or social status or you come across as weird to a lot of ppl. I have met a lot of guys who were very good-looking and they only wanted a casual relationship with me and nothing more b/c of how “weird” I am.
There are so many men in the world and even if your standards were super high, there would still be a lot more men than you could ever meet in your lifetime. I don’t think your standards are high.
Also don’t use dating apps to meet ppl. Many low-quality men use dating apps. You never know if you’re meeting with a sex offender. It’s a lot easier to impersonate ppl on the internet now. A lot of incels or cybercriminals impersonate ppl they actually know irl on dating apps (and you can’t reverse search b/c the photos are from Instagram, Snap, and private) then get photos from them, blackmail them, extort them, etc. Dating apps have an awful algorithm and you mainly get matches for a short period at first before you have to pay for premium for matches
“He’s” not. @Kristian has done nothing wrong, only offered an opinion. It’s completely ok for you to not like his opinion, that doesn’t mean it needs to be removed. Feel free to offer an opposing opinion that contributes better, in your opinion, to the OP.
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It’s also possible, that he was telling you he was unattached and disappointed in what he thought would become a relationship that fell through. Giving you a hint.
With all the bullshit out there, I think a lot of guys are generally more cautious now about females.
I don’t know anything about you, your looks, your demeanor or your situation. I’m sure I’d find you a lovely person and good company as would any healthy human would find another intelligent, talented and accomplished human.
So I’m just taking a wild guess here and guess that you find yourself in similar situations with similar types of men no matter how much you try to change things up?
My issues in dating are more cultural and religious. I’m LHP occultist (of course I don’t tell them) and all of the guys I have spoken with were from my ethnic group (South Asian) or Middle Eastern. Many of them are religious and family-oriented, so they will never take occultism well. They don’t have serious relationships unless their parents approve, and they always have marriage in mind. I’m upper caste myself but my family is secular and quite westernized. I don’t even speak my native languages. Their parents are obsessed with finding the perfect daughter-in-law for their sons. Many women my age are in medical or law school, top of their class, good at cooking, speak Hindi/Urdu/Pashto, religious, from cultured and traditional families so that’s preferable to me.
How is this arrogance? Is it only when someone claims to be ugly,fat and unaccomplished that they are humble? Just three sentences is enough to conclude that someone is masculine? How can someone honest analysis of their correct state of affairs pass as arrogance?she gave those information about herself just in case advisers may want to assume she is lacking in those areas. She hasn’t given enough revealation of her behaviour and attitude around men just revealing her status. I think it’s a little bit hasty to conclude that
I believe you are attractive and on the contrary, confident men just love confident women. I was thinking, are you actually going after less confident men or alternatively, do you easily put men on a pedestal in the begin of dating? If you have some sort of belief ”all men are rejecting me” you may be sending ”I’m below you” energy without knowing it. Also, increasing standards instead of decreasing them has proven a good tacticks.
Another thing I was thinking, was that you could try to be even more daringly flirty. Don’t just have an eye contact, put a flirty smile on your face and make it clear you find the guy interesting. At the same time, that should only be a bate, let the guy come after you. You need to be uninterested about the outcome. You might have done all of that already but these are just general good tips (depending of the culture too, ofcourse).
burn the both to ash , mix ashes after burning and add to soap
break one egg and put its contents in the soap ( liquad ) then bath with
or change liquad soap to solid by method you can find on Youtube
I, N., call upon thee great being behind this powerful seal of Venus through the Great Name of God which you honor and give obedience to that you deign to obey me and fulfil my desires: “Place me as a signet upon thine heart, as a signet upon thine arm, for love is strong as death; and as Elohim blessed them that he loves, bless me! Open my eyes, even in my dreams, that I may sleep not the sleep of death, lest I fall and shame on me and you.”
write this conjuration ,then burn it to ash
Next thing is to get the right side of the Solomon seal when it’s divided, burn that half to ash, pour the ash of the both on the talisman as shown above
fold the paper carefully , after add ashes on the talisman ,then wrapped carefully by blue thread till cover fully .
It could internal issues such societal pressures, self sabotaging, insecurity, abandonment issues, rejection issues. blockages ect. So if these things are internailsed into the shadowself they become unconscious but they still effect your energy. Sometimes you need to go in and face the issues and heal then release them. Maybe start a shadow work diary and record what you feel when these feeling and issues arise.
So you needs a ritual that cleanses all dimensions and layers of his being, spirit, soul, body and mind. I know Real name of Holy Angel, One of the countenances of The God ,can do it perfect and I know a comprehensive cleansing spell for 7 days using one of the Psalms of David,then start in spells of Honor and Grace , and Lilith can also do a lot of this. @Principles
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