Hello everyone. I took a break from here for a couple of months, but I am still having the same exact problem. I am constantly rejected by men. I can’t get a boyfriend to save my life. I’m not out of shape, i’m young, i’m pretty, very intelligent, and very talented and accomplished, but I still find myself constantly getting rejected, or humiliated, even by guys that would be considered below average. How can I stop this from happening magically? If it’s not near instant rejection, they soon find a way to humiliate me. (please don’t mention my looks, there is nothing wrong with my looks)
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No matter how good you think you are, it is always a good idea to improve in all manners.
Gym, diet, an art etc.
I think a more deeper connection with femine powers will do the trick so I would recommend any love goddess like Ishtar, Astarte, Aphrodite which are the same being and aslo Lilith.
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yes I already go to the gym and have different kinds of hobbies
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So is there maybe a lack of femine energy? I personally can sense which woman has more feminine energy and I am naturally drawn to them like a moth. Like they can be average but I can “smell” that energy and it’s the most beautiful thing in the world.
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what do you mean by feminine energy? be specific… I don’t think I lack feminine energy though.
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I think femine energy comes from a connection with one’s body, the drawing down of a more primordial energy that falls down into the body of a man or woman and has to act in a certain way, so if it falls into a body of a woman then this light enters a different lens.
When you get back into primal energy you will feel blissful because you are serving your purpose as your said gender.
As for what is it, The women that I know and get along with them always have this very sweet vibe, and overall is so much different from others, and I can just feel that love emenatting from their heart.
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Maybe that’s the reason why you get rejected. You appear arrogant and acting masculine. That’s a turn off for men. You can drug them with love and lust spells but the drugs will eventually goes off and often it backfires especially when the problem here is yourself, not men. I know that’s not what you want to hear but it’s the truth. The lack of introspectrum is the reason why people fails in dating these days…
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I don’t agree that the OP comes accross masculine in any way. Only logical, confident and stating the facts as far as I can tell.
I’m more masculine then her, older and unlikely to be as attractive and I don’t have this issue.
There is a strong current of weakness with very low testosterone rates among men at the moment: it’s makes them very bitchy and spiteful as if they are exhibiting the dark side of their Jungian anima in the worst way, so it may not be you at all.
I find looking for them in the wrong places gets you only the kinds of guys that are of the mindset to use those places: online dating sites are awful and the business model is designed for failure simply because they want you to keep using the dating site.
I might try men older than you that are less influenced by the bullshit in modern society, or join clubs and events where more masculine guys hang out. Gun or sporting clubs, adult education classes and hang out with the MBA students, or get into online gaming, all that good stuff. I met a cute and normal guy at the local library bee keeping club recently, and gamers as a community are more strong minded and able to handle other people having different opinions without making it personal. 
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This right here. I would give this advice to my younger self if I could!
I am currently preparing myself for finishing a diploma in a classically male dominated field and you wouldn’t believe how downright great the guys are that are frequenting the practical physical places that go together with my studies! They are intelligent, kind, down to earth and what I would describe as “effortlessly masculine”. I would focus my endeavours on such places and combine it with the magical enhancements at my disposal if I were OP.
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I don’t want to hear that I’m “masculine” based on a three sentence paragraph I made? 
I listed true facts about myself. Would you have rather me lie and call myself ugly, untalented, and unintelligent? It would just be lying. I know exactly who I am, and there’s nothing wrong with that. If you have a problem with me listing true things about myself, you’re weird and insecure.
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Good suggestion, but another problem is that I already go to a male dominated school and have attended events. Guys don’t make eye contact with me, and if we do, they look away quickly. Even if we speak, they show 0 signs of attraction to me.
And this happens across multiple different types of men, not just “men I’m attracted to” it doesn’t make sense because I know I’m not ugly. I dress really well, workout, and I’m facially pretty, so it can’t be the physical or that I’m ugly. I don’t have a “bad” personality either. But many many many guys of all races, ugly or average, show 0 signs. I don’t understand if this is just how they act now, or I have to flirt with them first…???
For example, on the few occasions I wear something revealing (showing my boobs, nothing crazy) guys act the exact same way around me. They don’t flirt, dont make eye contact, and even if we do speak, show no visible signs of attraction. And I’ve moved two states.
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Have you done a divination or looked into generational curses at all?
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I think its kinda hard to show immediate attraction to a stranger without coming off as a creep.
How long do you usually hold conversation with a man if it happens? Some men need a bit more time to warm up, some men use “cold shoulder” tactics in modern dating to not appear as needy or too soon too interested, etc
Ughhh yes unfortunately. But, I thought I broke the generational curse already lol
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Hmn, I pulled a card and got “Ghost”. (Josephine McCarthy’s Quareia deck)
There’s something more going on, this implies you have some kind of attached spirit. Not a curse, but possibly ancestral… Maybe something to look into.
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Hmm ok. Usually if I don’t get any signs they’re attracted to me I just move on. There was a guy friend of mine the other day (who I thought liked me) who I was hanging out with. He started talking about another girl who he speaks to long distance, saying that he wonders if she still likes him, and that he only applied to this school because of her, and that he would ask her if she still likes him. also didn’t flirt with me or show any signs that day and I was all done up too.
Honestly, I took him bringing up another girl as a rejection and a sign that he’s not attracted to me. Maybe that’s overthinking? I was really bummed out because I thought I finally was getting somewhere, but now I’m back to square one.
Interesting… can this be sent away with regular banishing methods? I do banishing and protection regularly already…
Yes, but something tells me there’s a message in it… I pulled another card and got “Hidden Knowledge”.
This is getting kinda heavy, it’s going on again about “stuff we don’t know”, and that makes me pause to say “just get rid of it” as this could be something worth looking into.
I’ll post the entire entry as it’s big… this is a free book from the Author so copyright is not infringed and I’ll give the link to her website copy of it if you want it.
I would say see if you can reach out and identify something or someone on the end of this and ask them what’s going on and why.
Have you considered any cord cuttings? To remove forces and energies that are messing with your relationship, ‘might work or get a reading to reveal the underlying causes and take it from there
Isn’t this the same guy that was calling another woman fat why she couldn’t get a man. Now he’s here telling another woman that she’s behaving like a man. When is this misogynistic individual gonna be issued a warning.
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