How can I make someone obsessed/ not able to get over me as revenge?

Black Magick & The Left Hand Path
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Hi people. Well, let me start by saying I know this will probably sound petty, and that’s why I’m gonna explain the situation.

There’s this guy and we used to be friends for a really long time, until he confessed to me last year and we were hanging out, thinking about starting a relationship. I asked him to wait a bit tho, cause I had some stuff to finish before jumping into something new like this. But well, some time passed by and I finally got my stuff done and told him we were fine, and he was happy, we celebrated, but 5 minutes later he simply told me he changed his mind cause he was scared. Then, when I got home, I texted him asking what he had decided and he said he didn’t wanna have anything serious for now. So I stopped talking to him, cause I admit I was frustrated. He had 2 months to change his mind, he was the one to start this whole thing, and then he simply stepped back like this. But ok, it was fine. Then, I started to follow his tweets, and man he’d post a lot about me. First it was like nostalgic heartbreak stuff, but then it turned out to be some posts calling me names, saying he dodged a bullet (even tho I have no idea what I did wrong), and I know he stalks my social media, and I didn’t post anything bad too.

Then, I was done. This weekend I hooked up with a guy, and then I found out it was one of his friends and they made a bet. A fucking bet. I got so angry. And then he started posting again, saying thank god he was so over me cause he dodged a bullet. Mind you, I found out this guy even said some transphobic stuff to a friend of mine and that’s why they’re not friends anymore.

Anyway, I’m pissed. I wanna take that smile off his face. I want him to be obsessed, to realize he’s not over me and stop acting like he’s superior to me in any way. I thought I could maybe do an obsession spell (I did one some time ago, but I think the results washed off cause I forgot to feed the jar consistently), and ask a demon to assist me. Which demons would you guys recommend? I’ve heard sitri could be used for lust and bindings, but obsession? Maybe Dantalion, to change his thoughts and emotions and make him infatuated and miss me like hell? Any ideas would be good. Also, he knows I’m an occultist, so I don’t know how this would unfold

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King Viné is able to make a past lover fall in love with you again as a form of punishment

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King Beleth

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Beleth is more for a lustful love, right? I’ve heard he’s most lust oriented

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This is interesting, cause I read about it in Hargrove’s book and DoM, but I can’t find any more info about this expertise anywhere. I could give it a try tho. But like, what would be he difference between asking Vine to make this guy madly in love with me as punishment vs asking another love/ lust demon, like Beleth or Sitri?

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But also the other way around - Love from Lust, per Corwin hargrove:

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But tbh though I think this ship has sailed. He didn’t take the rejection well and it gave him time to get over you, then his test happened and you failed that, and it’s probably all for the good.

He thinks you don’t care about him, and he’s right, he’d have to be convinced there’s a chance or he’ll ignore his fee fees even if he does get infatuated again. There’s nothing to stop him just being with another woman and imagining she’s you until he overrides it again.

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Well, we’re not in a relationship, neither romantic nor sexual. We have people in common and I check his twitter, but we don’t have anything going on between us. I know you’re experienced when it comes to demonolatry, and if it’s not asking too much, which demon/ demons would you recommend me? Maybe Vine, as someone else suggested? I’m just trying to understand the difference between requesting Vine vs other love demons

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You must be thinking of someone else… I despise ALL religions including demonolatry on the principle that they are inherently disrespectful to humanity.

I don’t really do revenge, I think it’s a waste of time. I would identify what I actually want to move forward with my ascension and put my energy into that instead. The worst thing you can do to an enemy is not care about them and do better than you ever would have without them around.

For this I would work - and am working - with Azazel, Ant’harratu, Belial, Asmoday, Amon, Lucifuge, Bael and my MAP (Medical Assistance Program) team.

Note - that’s just me, I’m Aquarian and enjoy being detached, my first instinct in situations like this is to tell everybody involved to fuck of permenently and mean it. :smiley:

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There is a ritual in Lucifer and the hidden demons with Astaroth for gain the love of someone through the will. I think it is basically obsession

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I’m sorry, it’s because I see you around the forum often and you always give really good advice, so I probably used the wrong term. I wanted to say you’re experienced when it comes to helping people with magick/ demons

Well, I’m a capricorn, leo moon and scorpio rising so I’m all about revenge lol. Even tho I know doing well would piss some people, this is not the case of this mf. He’s the type of person who needs to suffer to learn something, so doing better off wouldn’t really do anything; trust me, I was doing this and then he started with those infamous posts and that fucking bet with his friend. But thanks anyway :slight_smile:

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I checked it, it sounds interesting, thanks!

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Beleth is a master of all human emotions, he is good at both love and lust

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You don’t want him to admit his love, you simply want him to realize he was a mf.

His name and date of birth on a paper, fold it inwards while stating your intention, put it in your left shoe.
I got an apology from someone who never apologizes within 12-13h. Walk on him whole day. Repeat daily until he breaks.

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I don’t want just an apology, I want him to suffer as hell. I found out he’s also a terrible person, so I wanna do the full job. But can I use this whenever I want someone to apologize, even when I’m in no contact with the person?

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I was in no contact with that person as well. Make sure to leave a channel open if you want to receive the message, if you block them from everywhere you’ll never receive it.

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They’re not blocked, we just haven’t talked in months and they’re doing well, so I bet they doesn’t even think about me. But I think I’ll give it a try someday, probably after mercury retrograde is over. Thanks!

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Mercury retrograde is a great time to bring someone back actually :wink: Either temporary or permanently.

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Ok, you must be kidding cause I told the same thing to my friend and they told me it wasn’t a good idea. For context, an old fling reached out out of nowhere and she said it was because of mercury retrograde, so I said “hey, so why don’t we do spells to get apologies/ texts from people we’re in no contact with now?”, and she said it’d probably turn into a fight because of the communication issues lol. Anyway, it’s a really good tip, I think I’ll probably do it, thanks!

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Friendly reminder, if you do not like the OPs intentions that’s fine, but this thread is not for discussion of whether you personally approve or not.

This IS a forum that allows the discussion of black and baneful magick. If you have nothing other than criticism of the OP or thier working, please refrain from posting, I’m sure we’d love to hear what you have to offer on other threads more to your liking!

Thank you for the flags, guys.

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Come to think of it, what about a binding?

I did a working that played out quite well that got a friend of mine back with his gf when she ended it after a fight. I bound them both together using poppets and talked about it here: Binding the love of a couple into an LTR to get rid of one of them from your life - #4 by Mulberry with a picture below that of the bound dolls.

You might want to edit that so that instead of a doll for you, you maybe replace that with something baneful - thorns maybe, like brambles bunched up if you can find those near you. :thinking:
Though that could be me and my standoffishness again and you could bind them to yourself as part of the obsession working… what I like about this is it leaves a get-out clause, in that you can destroy the binding by unwinding it and burning the lot.

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