Wait, this is interesting. That jerk can’t stand being alone for a second, so maybe I could bind him to loneliness. I could bind him to his obsession too, cause I admit this would be really funny, specially because I’m an eye for an eye person; for example, if someone’s refusing to pay me, I’d fuck with their finances, if a colleague start spreading rumors about me, I’d go for their reputation. So if someone from my love life did me dirty, I’d target their love life as well. Is it possible to do both obsession and loneliness? If not, it’s fine cause I’ll simply do it for loneliness. Great advice as always, thanks 
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Yes you can do bindings for multiple things. In practice, while winding on the binding see how it feels, if the energy is sort of slippery and feels like it’s not sticking when you chant the binding then it’s ok to separate into two threads, one for each.
You can also use the same doll later for more work if you keep it.
I keep them when I use the Vovin’s Freeze Spell variant and put the poppet in the back of the freezer. This can have the effect of keeping them around in your life, which is fine if they’re going to stay around anyway.
You can also burn it, as a funeral or just to release the magick into the universe so you don’t have to babysit it. You can make another for another working.
I also find the more you do the same type of match the more effective and faster it gets, like I’m “greasing the groove” of the technique.
I believe there is a universal law that says you have a right to fight back when you have been attacked, (not just passively defend, fight with like aggression) and you were attacked when he set the trap. I find baneful magick is easier in this situation, as it’s in balance and you are basically clearing “karma” immediately rather then let it fester.
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One practice that’s worked really well for me without needing to put anything in the freezer (because I currently live with people who aren’t into magick) is what I call a “monster meditation” upon the target.
Essentially I’d start out by getting myself into a mindstate where I feel deeply connected to them and close to them, convincing myself that I and the target are great friends (I feel as if this also makes it seem less like it originates from me). Then getting myself in a visualisation where I’m walking with them somewhere and really getting into it by spending time thinking about how it looks, the sounds there, how it smells, etc.
Finally, once I feel immersed enough, I imagine a terrifying and horrific looking monster drag them away, changing what happens based on what I want (turning them into a statue for a freeze spell, tearing them apart for a death curse, and so on). What I then do is, still in the visualisation, make myself feel as if I would if that just happened to a close friend of mine to make it feel very real to me. Feeling grief at what just happened, fear at whatever that monster was, sadness at “losing them/specific thing happening to them”, and so on. In this case hypothetically I’d see a monster do something to make the target fall helplessly in love.
Once I feel like I’ve “used up” my emotions entirely then I exit the meditation and make a statement of finality, something like “I can’t believe I’ll never see target again” but it would change based on the goal. Finally, finished up with clearing my space.
Could be another interesting idea for the OP since she could make it as detailed as she wants to get all the right effects. I like this a bit more than outright baneful work and do it more often now because it feels a lot less heavy to do.
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This is good, so I can do both. But for example, for an obsession binding I’d probably bind his doll/ poppet to mine, maybe add some paper slips with my name written inside the doll’s heart, mind and genitals with a punch of licorice and hibiscus. But what about loneliness? I can’t think of a way to represent this. In fact, some time ago I asked (on reddit) how to make a loneliness curse with a poppet and no one replied to my post, so I still don’t know how to make this work. A friend of mine tried to bind her target to loneliness weeks ago, tying his pic with thread while repeating he’d be alone, and well, it didn’t work. So how could I do this to a poppet? Maybe I could tie a paper with the word “loneliness” to his poppet?
And this is interesting, cause I’ve been thinking about working with poppet magick lately. I have a tshirt that belonged to him, but I borrowed it once and never returned; if I used some thread from this shirt, would I be binding myself to the poppet instead of him? I don’t have anything else from him, besides his full name and dob.
I’ve read about the Vovin’s spell, it’s pretty nice, the only reason I never tried it it’s because I live with intolerant christian people lol
Me too. I respect people who disagree, but I just can’t with that love and light mindset. If someone did me wrong, I’ll do the same, cause sometimes bad people won’t pay for what they did unless you act and do something. If you can’t use magick to fight your own battles, for what will you use it then?
Thanks again 
Sounds interesting, it’s like a way to canalize your intention directly into the target without any tools or outside forces. I’m not gonna lie, I’m not into meditation because I have a hard time focusing lol, but maybe I could try it and see how it goes, maybe I could also do it before spellwork or evocations to strengthen my intention and maybe even give the work a boost, what do you think? Thanks for your help!