Relationship Problem Solving
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5 * 4 * 6
8 * 7 * 9
*10 11
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Card 1: The problem, the real question; present situation, reason for asking. 7 of Cups.
Cards 2,3,4,5 and 6 represent the nature of the relationship.
Card 2: Shows how you relate to the other person. I The Magician.
Card 3: Shows how the other person relates to you. Page of Cups.
Card 4: Shows what the relationship looks like as a whole. Reverse 8 of Pentacles.
Card 5: Shows your hopes, needs and desires in the relationship. 10 of Pentacles.
Card 6: Shows the other person’s hopes, needs, and desires in the relationship. Reverse King of Pentacles.
Cards 7,8,9, represent conflicts and insights into impediments.
Card 7: What is causing conflict or impediments. Nine of Pentacles.
Card 8: Represents your perspective of the problem and how you will deal with it. Reverse XX Judgement.
Card 9: Represents the other person’s perspective on the problem and how they will deal with it. 4 of Cups.
Cards 10, 11, 12 offers insight and solutions.
Card 10: What needs to change to overcome challenges. Ace of Cups.
Card 11: This is how you can resolve any differences and how you can improve the relationship and take it to the next level. Reverse 2 of Swords.
Card 12: Crucial Insight; additional advice or outcome. 10 of Wands.
.Putting It All Together:
The reason why you asked for a reading is that you have choices before you. Some of these temptations aren’t realistic and you want more insight before making a decision.
You relate to the other person through power and skill. I’ve noticed that when it comes to readings given on BALG, it means they’ve already cast a love spell on their desired target at some point – literally being magicians. This could also mean that you’re the one who is self-empowered and the more responsible one in the relationship. This person relates to you by being gentle, sentimental, and romantic. Overall your relationship isn’t working. At least one of you is not putting in the effort to make it work.and aren’t being serious about your relationship.
Your desire for the relationship is a future of stability, wealth, and sharing family values. Their desire for the relationship is one where money comes and goes. A focus on materialism and not the maturity required for long-term gratification and foresight to save.
The cause of conflict has to do with wanting financial security. One person – it appears to be you, is more financially responsible than the other. Your perspective of the problem is that they are being irresponsible and clinging onto old ways. You’re dealing with it by just not dealing with it. Keeping the peace and leaving the problem(s) unresolved. The way the other person views and manages the problem is dissatisfaction with life where they focus on self-absorption and taking things for granted.
What needs to change to overcome the problem is the Ace of Cups. It signifies an opportunity of renewal; time to let go of past wrongs and open yourself up to enjoying the gift of the present with the love presently available to you. To rephrase a thought Marcus Aurelius wrote in Meditations, “You will always have the past to look back upon and the future to look forward to, but the present moment not being lived and appreciated right now will be forever lost.”
What is within your power to fix your problem is to face the painful truth and to make a decision, even it’s uncomfortable.
Other insight states that there is stress currently experienced. A burden, possibly from overcommitment. This may indicate you need to take the time to truly think about what it is you want.
