Feeling absolutely blocked all of a sudden?

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I’m working towards a reconciliation with someone by petitioning different demons of the Ars Goetia. I’m halfway through the operation but I suddenly feel like I should quit, like something is blocking me from continuing with the process.

I do a Max of three rituals per week, do divination and energy checks weekly, take care of other things in my life, all that jazz. But for some reason I can’t identify it feels like I should stop this.

How can I tell if it’s a temporary exhaustion or if it’s a calling to end this permanently?

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I’ll always think above all else your personal desire in the matter is an important variable. Are you sure you want to reconcile with this person, working this all with a sure heart? Is it really worth your energy and time? Are you doing it because you want to, or because you feel like you should/you have to? If your usual ways of divining the problem are coming up blank, it may not be what you think.

Also, I know everybody is different with energy levels, but even with energy checking, 3 rituals a week sounds like a lot. Pay attention to your physical and mental faculties too, and maybe, take a break to think of things for a while and see if you want to come back and continue the working. Your health is the most important part above all else– BUT, if you really feel a growing seed of worry that this isn’t something you should pursue, do you really want to reconcile? I know I don’t have all the info on the situation between you and this person, but just my thoughts.

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Do you mean, stop altogether as in, undo the work, or take a pause while the energies settle out for a bit?

Card: Man of Nature…

The feeling I’m getting, it that’s it’s a natural need for things to relax and adjust. Some things, if you bend them gradually, like with wood, say, you can bend them in complete loops, but if you go too hard too fast they just snap. You give some time for the fibers to settle in to the new shape and then continue.

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I’m going back and forth, maybe because energies are still shifting for this particular situation.

I have decided to take a break at least for this week and see how I feel after that. Thank you.

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Yes this is exactly how I feel right now. I will take a break and focus on other works that I have pending.

Did you pull this “Man of Nature” card you are mentioning? What deck is that?

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The Quareia Deck from Josephine Mccarthy. It’s free at her website.

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Thanks

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I am going to share with you my story.
Around 11 years ago I had a crush on a guy. I did a blockbuster candle to remove all the obstacles so I can do love spells. I had bought at least 5 or 6 candles from different shops. Honestly all of them would stop after a while and go off. No matter what I would do to light them they would still go off.

Soon after I got a new crush. Same story. I did a blockbuster. My blockbuster candle had the same issues.
Fast forward a few years. I found out that it was basically protection from my ancestors. The first crush I had was a guy who was a cheater and a lazy person and had been involved with the wrong crowd. Second crush was another guy that my ancestors protected me from. He had hidden from me his heavy criminal past and a few years later that the found a good woman who was a school teacher he had a baby with her. She thought that she had found a catch and that she won over me… she came and found me after a few years and she told me she wished that she was the one who was rejeected. AGAIN.. that was my ancestors protecting me.

You might work with demons. I work with demons too. You might get what you want.. and you might even get a lesson out of getting what you wanted.

However my opinion is get some divination, ask your ancestors and guides and whichever spirits are protecting you to reveal to you WHY the spell is not working and if there are any hidden truths that you should know that you don’t.

I am sure that there is something that you dont know that you need to learn first. That’s my opinion.

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I did some divination today after your advice, nothing too heavy, and it basically pointed out to taking things more slowly and not care too much about specific results as of now. I will stay on break for the rest of the week then continue at a more sustainable pace.

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tbh since you posted I kept hearing the phrase “personal development”. I was also getting the feeling that you arent going to get what you want until you are in an alignment with it. There is a step that you need to take to “mature” to get it. Like a fruit that it is still green and needs to get its color. If this step wont happen then there is no point for you to get what you are asking for. I dont know what it is. I was also getting the image of a stair missing some steps. I didnt do any divination. It is just a download. I hope it helps.

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I think this checks out.
Last night I had a realization that I need more emotional and mental maturity and control. Part of the reason why this person and I are at a distance now is my tendency to assume things before checking them properly and to act out of anger. Regardless of if I reconnect with the person or not this is something I need to improve.

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yes this was exactly the sensation that I was getting. I havent replied for a long time to any of the posts on the forum. This time though I felt the pull to tell you.

If anger is the issue that messes things up you need to find out what the triggers are. What exactly hurts you. Then you need to go back in time and find when was the first time you got hurt on the exact same thing. Also you need to find in what fear or trauma this trauma is based. Is it insecurity about something? Is it fear about something? Is it a limiting belief? For example is it that you dont feel chosen or is there a part of you that dont feel good enough? Did your parents or your environment when you were growing up made you obtain that belief?

Then you need to reparent yourself which will be through visualisation. A lot of meditation. Affirmations work a lot.

While you do this work ask a spirit to guide you to get the best quality of help.
I feel some sort of relief telling you this. I take it as a good sign.

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Thank you @PriestessLayla for your insights.

I am now in a state of frustration over this situation so I’ll get in more detail here so other practitioners can give their perspective if they want to.

I’ll try to be as concise as possible, considering also that this story is a bit long.

Basically, I am in love with a man who is far from me physically speaking and who, by all accounts, is involved in A polyamorous dynamic where the “main character” is a woman who has a long term partner but is also dating him. When I found out I confronted him but he denied everything, got aggressive and blocked me. I tried to reach out to that woman to talk about it in a respectful manner but she didn’t respond.

It’s been about two months since my last contact with him, and as far as I could tell from their social media, they are still involved like nothing happened, and this woman is flaunting her lifestyle and about how she is so amazing that she gets to have two boyfriends and anyone who criticize her is just jealous yadayada.

What I have done so far, using the framework of the Ritual 1 Petition for Results in DoM.

• Sallos for self love as the foundation.
• Marbas to heal my connection with him.
• Gaap to remove all thirds parties.
• Amon for reconciliation
• Forneus to make him and his circle think fondly of me
• Eligos to make him mature and willing to commit to me
• Foras to forgive myself for all mistakes in the connection
• Gaap again specifically to remove this person from his life

I do weekly tarot and energetic checks to see how the work is going, and so far it has said that the energy is moving forward slowly but surely, and that I have good chances to succeed.

Pending works in this operation:
• Dantalion to make him change his mind about me
• Sallos to ignite deep romantic love for me
• Gremory to channel his sexual desire toward me and me only
• Gusoin to make him realize I am the best option for a life partner
• Seere as a booster

My plan is to complete all these rituals during the coming weeks, and then wait for two lunar cycles to see if there is any movement. By movement I mean him reaching out, not necessarily offering the relationship I want, but in terms of reconnection.

If there is no movement after the two lunar cycles have passed, I will cut the connection for good no matter what, and send that woman evidence that he denies his relationship with her.

I thought this was a good strategy but I am feeling impatient. I started working in August and not only I haven’t seen any progress with this man, but his circumstances seem to be exactly the same and that annoying woman is still around. I feel frustrated, especially because the energetic checks and tarot cards indicated that they were slowly distancing but it seems that is not the case.

What am I doing wrong? Am I wasting my time and energy with this?

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Have you done a divination on it? It might not have anything to do with the demons not favoring you but that they are prevented or blocked from acting by the target’s defenses.

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@DarkestKnight

I did.

It said he has no defenses.

I just asked about the third party and the cards pointed out that she does have some sort of energetic defenses. Some are unconscious and probably passed down from ancestors, some are a conscious mental effort to not let “haters” affect her.

What can be done in this case? What Goetic spirits can help to bring down those barriers?

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Reach out to the third party’s Higher Self and make your case. The Higher Self can withdraw any ancestor protection.

The book Angels of Wrath has a ritual for destroying defenses.

You can also try to bind the ancestors from interfering.

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Thank you. How does the ancestor binding work?

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Try contacting their Higher Self first. It might be easier than binding. Try this:

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@DarkestKnight

Thank you for the information.
Unfortunately I don’t have the materials for this and I’m sticking to Goetic work until I master it. Can you suggest a Goetic spirit that works for this type of situation?

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Personally, I think you should simplify. Not every angle needs attention; just pick the few that matter most. Too much activity is desperation and insecurity. Rather, do less and let it go with confidence.

An excellent strategy that I saw here, somewhere, is to pick a leader that will coordinate the others. Orias came to mind just now.

The block might be from the demons themselves. Based on my observations, in love and relationships, outcomes are the result of who we are. If you managed to reconcile, you would soon fall out again. To change the outcome, the people involved must change. The demons might want to be working for a real outcome for you, not just another heartbreak.

Winterfield doesn’t mention anything about emotional healing for Valac, but VK Jehannum works with him for this purpose. He has a meditation for this on his Patreon, a spell somewhere, and he also does spellwork for clients. The reviews of this spell are pretty impressive. Your guy needs it too, based on the fact that he’s willing to be in third place, behind herself and the preferred man.

Finally, several of the 72 are known for setting up practitioners for love and sex. A final step would be to pick one and petition that you be re-united with your hunk when you’ve both evolved enough to have a better outcome. If you had to wait several years and grow from several interim relationships, but then you got a lasting and deep relationship, that would be worth it, right?

Take care,
KralHor