I’m trying something new for me, in using poppet bindings to cement two compatible people, already gf/bf, into a long lasting, lifetime relationship.
Problem is, love though I do, he’s got some narcissistic borderline and extremely histrionic traits, (meaning self-centered and oversexed) and a chronic cheater (intentionally and remorselessly), which she doesn’t know, (yet) so I also want to encourage him to only have eyes for her and not fuck this up.
And I want him gently moved out of my life, in the most beneficial way possible.
So my go-to “death curse everyyyythinnngggg!” is out 
I want her to be tolerant, caring and in love, wanting to keep him around and have him move in even. She’s rich, capable and emotionally intelligent, and will be able to keep him stable and both of them happy.
I have dissolved our Earthy connection with this spell as much as seems practical at the moment, the spiritual connection is fine and I do not typically break spiritual connections, I call them “covenants”, which probably isn’t the right use of that word but it feels right, and I have to assume there’s more going on than my human gestalt is aware of that I don’t want to risk making mistakes with.
Now I’m designing a new spell to order. This involves a woman I don’t know, and comes with the usual caveats of “do your divination to avoid backlash”. I think I can use the past-life aspects in myself that align with the “intranquil spirit” and maybe move that energy into her, and poppet is a good tool for that.
I’m also reviewing this spell for ideas I can incorporate: Love binding using a poppet and an image of yourself
Do you guys have any more ideas for the perfect matchmaker spell that takes two people already together and dial it up to 11 to help them fix their flaws, overcome anything together, need to be together like a married couple and go the distance?